Oh I know.
And your not with them I assume because ironcally they didn't know what they want. Not just with sex.
It's about character too.
I'm not with them because we were never seriously dating, just getting to know each other lol
Oh I know.
And your not with them I assume because ironcally they didn't know what they want. Not just with sex.
It's about character too.
I'm not with them because we were never seriously dating, just getting to know each other lol
you said only one had a problem with it, might be more...
another fake ass black feminist thats undercover hoe shaking her ass for likes What's more, a lot of men who may have been genuine will be immediately turned off by arbitrary waiting periods and move on, especially if they have options.
I just saw @Killer Instinct 's post.
Yeah, in dating the onus is really placed on women to maintain that perception of dignity and chastity (not arguing whether or not that is right and to what extent/degree) but like he said its a double edged sword because I know if a girl told me that I wouldn't wait. Not because I want to have sex on Day 1, but rather because of how she's basically turning her box into a prize and us dating into a game that I have to win.
Then you add the fact that when she finds that after x number of months the sex was bad or the dude wasn't interested in her beyond sex..the skewed rationale is that its because men aren't shyt and that her "vetting process" probably needs to be stricter for the next dude RE: bitter baggage.

yeah but not all moments lead to sex...probably
it just seems kinda ridiculous to see a person, like them, talk to them romantically as a person when you're really looking at them like a countdown for sex, especially in this case when he dipped after he got it, like there weren't other women who are willing to not wait 6 month
lots of people have been fukkin since middle school, everyone doesn't need to be a conquest
it's like people are more willing to have people all up in their genitals than all up in their hearts
what is the rush?
Definitely unintended.It's funny, because women fought so hard not to be judged for their sexuality, but some of them still make it valulable.![]()
If you're really looking to date someone and get to know them ,you're going to have plenty of opportunities to have sex so does it matter if you didn't the first couple of months? I think if you make dates and time together less "netflix and chill" ish, you can have a lot of fun with each other NOT having sex and don't even miss it for real.I dont understand the dating world...
How long are you REALLY supposed to make a man wait? 6 months seems like overkill....
Definitely unintended.
Look at actions...respect yourself and let shyt happen naturally is what I say.
It's immature, just like women who play games who want a guy to "chase" after them. shyts silly.
Pretty much.... even as a young man I knew right out the gate if I was going to be serious or not... and if that young lady wanted something more than casual sex, I sent her back down life's highway before anything would pop off....
The right thing for the guy to do in this case was to have the nuts to be straight up with her, and let her know he was only about the puss.........
