That's emotionally abusive. If the argument devolves into personal attacks, then I disengage.
Stick to the topic and work through it to a solution. Don't drag in extraneous mess.
Folk stop sharing intimate details with you if they know that you will use it against them in a random fit of rage. They will start to keep you at arms' length because the trust is GONE.
actually emascualtion through discovery and fact finding is in general.
A woman's first mode of attack.
Plus, that is why women like the so-called strong silent fictional type from movies who does not exist.
As generally women only want to get to know you for emasculation purposes.
Once I learned to some how not share shyt with women.
I was better off,...
Yet, not sharing is a time stamped game.
As the longer you deal with someone.
even in just a intimately physical relationship manner.
The more time you spend like that.
with someone who maybe of an unknown quality as a committal.
You start to question if you may want to be closer.
Then when you do share.
It fukks it all up.
Real talk,...dealing with women is on some other shyt universally, right now.
I really see women doing thing much different than a few years ago.
It is like they are up'n game right in front of our eyes during this late recession.
If you are in the movie.
It is hard to watch the movie while you are in it.
I am not sure if nikkas noticed it or not,...
Yet, it is some shyt going on
Anyways...i do not argue with women anymore and continue relating to them.
Now,....i just pretty much walk away.
If I have to say something scathing to a woman.
I already know,...what time it is.
As I have been in relationships where i never argued, with my woman at the time at all.
Any woman arguing with a man.
Typically has father issues.
As women really only argue about a few key things.
Which are all spawned in general from parental issues.
I have yet,...to argue with a woman who had a good father around in a relationship.
Now, a woman who you are not in any kind of relationship.
Is just a typical human being,..
So you could have an argument.
As a matter of fact any woman you are not in any relationship with.
You can expect or anticipate is someone you could have an argument with.
Art Barr
*hated it and still hates I have to think with my brain to be with women.
I liked it better when I was naive enough to think with my heart with women.
To bad,...women are into emasculation and you can not do that.