Making love vs. fukking

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Personally I feel like it should start outside of the bedroom. That could mean talking seductively (telling her what you want to do to her), flirting, caressing, eye contact. You are more passionate and sweet and not as aggressive. Tell her sweet and kind endearments as you guys are having your Marvin Gaye moment. MoonGoddess mentioned something good, whisper something sweet while you're in there. Hold really tightly as you are getting your soft but good stroking on. Oh and I do think some type of dominance (not asking her too many questions but taking control) can help a lot. It should be intense, and would make her crave you more.

A lot of the guys here are laughing and calling it weird, but if you don't try she will go find it somewhere else. :yeshrug:
 

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Personally I feel like it should start outside of the bedroom. That could mean talking seductively (telling her what you want to do to her), flirting, caressing, eye contact. You are more passionate and sweet and not as aggressive. Tell her sweet and kind endearments as you guys are having your Marvin Gaye moment. MoonGoddess mentioned something good, whisper something sweet while you're in there. Hold really tightly as you are getting your soft but good stroking on. Oh and I do think some type of dominance (not asking her too many questions but taking control) can help a lot. It should be intense, and would make her crave you more.

A lot of the guys here are laughing and calling it weird, but if you don't try she will go find it somewhere else. :yeshrug:

A great love making session always starts outside the bedroom. The anticipation, the build up... :ohlawd:

When I've been profoundly in love with a woman, I LOVE those intense sessions. Time slows down to me honestly.

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You just have to make her feel special. Touch her more, kiss her more and tenderly. Whisper in her ear while you In there how much you love her, how good it feels to be in her. Cuddle with her afterwards. I mean if you guys have been together for a while and you are in love it should be easy to take your time and make her feel like more than an orifice. You never know you might like it to. Its nice to slow things down from time to time. It can be so intense, plus it'll make her fall in love with you more.

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I make love to these chicks out cheaa:youngsabo:, its just one of the reasons I can't do one nighters.

5-10 mins of Foreplay =/= making love


You have to 1st make her feel like she loved, and that's different for every woman, after that fore play can be started hours ahead of time. By you simply looking at her in a certain way, touching her hands and arms and of course those 3 magic words "I love you"

She needs to feel like she's the only one for you and you want nothing else but to please her.

Once foreplay really starts and this is where alot of nikka's really :ufdup:

You dont go straight to it and start beating it up or eating it up, there's touch kissing and lots of holding involved. Tease her make her wait a bit etc etc. After its all said and done you cuddling is key to making her feel like she just made love and yall didn't just f*ck.
 

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Personally I feel like it should start outside of the bedroom. That could mean talking seductively (telling her what you want to do to her), flirting, caressing, eye contact. You are more passionate and sweet and not as aggressive. Tell her sweet and kind endearments as you guys are having your Marvin Gaye moment. MoonGoddess mentioned something good, whisper something sweet while you're in there. Hold really tightly as you are getting your soft but good stroking on. Oh and I do think some type of dominance (not asking her too many questions but taking control) can help a lot. It should be intense, and would make her crave you more.

A lot of the guys here are laughing and calling it weird, but if you don't try she will go find it somewhere else. :yeshrug:
Damn baby that's some shyt. She told me she don like when I'm aggressive.. I be tryna get it in tho.. Specially with her..
 
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