Making love vs. fukking

[aXiom]

Being a virgin means exactly that. A virgin doesn't know the damn difference between a hard stroke and a soft stroke... A virgin don't know the damn difference between fukking and love making... A virgin has no idea what they want during sex...

Am I a lonely cat lady or a slut giving it up? Is it Oochie Wally one mic?

The only one who needs therapy is the sexually repressed male in online drag

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There's a gang of "virgins" running around giving advice in damn near every sex related thread.. same ones will tell you in another thread that they'd never put a dikk in their mouth or they'd only give head on special occasions.. shyt kills me every time..

 

[CinnaSlim]

Wow, I probably shouldn't be "aroused" that you incorporated bible knowledge into this comment but I am.... Not sure if that's a bad or a good thing.

As for the bold the same thing happen with me, or I should say I got way more distracted with sex and women and my spiritual needs fell by the wayside after I actually had sex, couldn't tell you what exactly changed, but something definitely did.

I used to be very very into church. I would give testomonies while still in grade school, choir, bible study, praise and worship, vacation bible school, Sunday school, retreats. I took a couple Bible college classes too. I did my own research. I respect it but I'm more about a more personal spiritual journey, yoga and meditation now.

 

[CinnaSlim]

+rep

There's a gang of "virgins" running around giving advice in damn near every sex related thread.. same ones will tell you in another thread that they'd never put a dikk in their mouth or they'd only give head on special occasions.. shyt kills time every time..

It's much worse on LSA. I think that's why theyre so judgmental and gossipy; because theyre too busy worrying about others instead of getting theirs.

 

[HoloGraphic]

I say not.....I've seen guys before that I was very attracted to and thought of what it would be like. You can also read erotica and get an idea. Never said I was having sex, but I do believe it can start outside of the bedroom, and you can get an idea of what you want done to you. Knowing my body I know that I would not want someone ramming into me.

So apparently your a virgin?

Understand that your understanding is considered "limited" to those who have experienced what you haven't?

But I've never taken dikk either so I can talk. Lol

 

[Tim Dripcan]

Sorry I'm not your man.

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ladies, ladies, ladies. stop with the bickering and just throw some knowledge.

Listen, having sex is like eating the fruit from the Tree of Knowledge. Your eyes become open and you experience things differently. Your mindset changes. I was like you before I had sex then I made a 180 after I experienced it. (Also because I become less religious).

But in summary, you think you know but you have no idea.

that's how it's like huh?

one day my time will come.

for now it's working on myself as a man.

 

[HoloGraphic]

@agnosticlady nevermind. Ignore my post. I couldn't care less what you do or don't do with your body.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Listen, having sex is like eating the fruit from the Tree of Knowledge. Your eyes become open and you experience things differently. Your mindset changes. I was like you before I had sex then I made a 180 after I experienced it. (Also because I become less religious).

But in summary, you think you know but you have no idea.

What a joke. Sex IS spirituality.

Religious beliefs like these are made specifically to keep people from finding God within themselves.

I no longer pay attention to people with these beliefs. It's like describing color to the blind.

 

[King Poetic]

I have no clue about love and don't care since my mindset isn't about love, marriage, keeping the chick happy...

My mission is to go in a destroy her like a lion does it pray, savage every part of her body for 4 minutes and I'm done

 

[The Mad Titan]

I feel like @agnosticlady can understand what it feels like to be made love to without having had sex yet. Simply because a big part of making love is making love to the person mind or psyche as well as there body. Realistically your just having sex. Making love is a energy, mood and feeling and technique, so even tho she might be a virgin she could know what very well what makes her feel love and what would make her body and mind feel enthralled.



edit: and example from my own experience is when I was engaged to my ex there were times that we laid together barely spoke just touched and held each and it literally felt like energy. There was no sex some of those times but if there was it was just love making. So yeah if she knows what turns her on mentally she could explain that to someone else that asking about the two...

I'm pretty sure she knows what getting piped down involves even being a virgin

 

[CinnaSlim]

What a joke. Sex IS spirituality.

Religious beliefs like these are made specifically to keep people from finding God within themselves.

I no longer pay attention to people with these beliefs. It's like describing color to the blind.

Did you misread? When did I say it wasn't?
What beliefs are you talking about, Kamn?

They are awakenings, a spiritual/sexual awakening.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Did you misread? When did I say it wasn't?
What beliefs are you talking about, Kamn?

Think we're out of context here. I was referring to religious virgins. Yeah....think I misread that.

Sorry for the spaz, carry on.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I feel like @agnosticlady can understand what it feels like to be made love to without having had sex yet. Simply because a big part of making love is making love to the person mind or psyche as well as there body. Realistically your just having sex. Making love is a energy, mood and feeling and technique, so even tho she might be a virgin she could know what very well what makes her feel love and what would make her body and mind feel enthralled.

I think people are saying her view is based on a limited experience. it's like giving an opinion on food she has seen or smelled but never tasted.

 

[Bless't]

+rep

There's a gang of "virgins" running around giving advice in damn near every sex related thread.. same ones will tell you in another thread that they'd never put a dikk in their mouth or they'd only give head on special occasions.. shyt kills me every time..

Truuuuuuuuue.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Listen, having sex is like eating the fruit from the Tree of Knowledge. Your eyes become open and you experience things differently. Your mindset changes. I was like you before I had sex then I made a 180 after I experienced it. (Also because I become less religious).

But in summary, you think you know but you have no idea.

Having sex with the right person*
Not everyone you'll be with or have been with can open you to your sexuality. You have to be comfortable with yourself as a sexual being as well as that person and trust them to take you to levels you've never reached.
When i was younger i thought that sex was something people that are married or in relationships did just because they were supposed to. I know better now. Its why im comfortable not being out there flinging my p*ssy left and right. I can never go back to the sex i was having when i was younger. Finding that one person that understands your body and what you need as well as you do is

 

[toomanydoses]

So a person would know nothing about their own body? So a virgin would know absolutely nothing unless they have had sex before? Please go feed your cats.

Yes being a virgin means you don't even know what sex is let alone what you want I used to want a dime, no kids, deep throat and swallows, that made her own money. Now just let me find a girl who makes her own money with no kids, we can work on the other things