Making love vs. fukking

[Malta]

Says the "female" "virgin"

My ex was a virgin and was real descriptive about sex before we did it, made me think she wasn't until we tried, she bled after and it felt like a vice was gripping me during the act

Some virgins got vivid imaginations.

It's not fair how yall play with emotions.

I've been in love with the only two women I've made love to, as in they get the works, methodical, slow, teasing and anticipation build up They also see me the next day as happy to see them as they are to see me, can't go out here making love to everybody though

 

[Houston911]

@Raedawn07

please advise

 

[agnosticlady]

Yes being a virgin means you don't even know what sex is let alone what you want I used to want a dime, no kids, deep throat and swallows, that made her own money. Now just let me find a girl who makes her own money with no kids, we can work on the other things

Dude that's pretty obvious. Everything that glitters isn't gold is the reason why you want a woman with no kids and has a job opposed to what you originally wanted. A physical dime isn't something you see on the street every single day unless you live in a city that acquires them. I'm not dating bums that live under a bridge and that won't change. This is like a woman who wanted a man that's 6''3" , but turns around and realizes height alone doesn't make a good mate. You still require the essentials (financial maturity and no baggage) knowing that maybe you can cajole your spouse into doing things you like.

 

[old_timer]

in this position, i would just go unfiltered with her
cut out anything that seems mechanical or half-hearted
(even if it is foreplay activities women are "supposed" to enjoy)
take chances- do anything you've been secretly wanting to do
say anything that pops into mind even if it sounds wild
touch her how you want to touch her
(obviously don't maul her,, or ignore her reactions if she wants to stop)
but let your passion and enthusiasm ignite her excitement
whether you go softer, or harder
trust the rapport you built with her to this point
you're creating memories and experiences that can't be put into words

 

[agnosticlady]

I feel like @agnosticlady can understand what it feels like to be made love to without having had sex yet. Simply because a big part of making love is making love to the person mind or psyche as well as there body. Realistically your just having sex. Making love is a energy, mood and feeling and technique, so even tho she might be a virgin she could know what very well what makes her feel love and what would make her body and mind feel enthralled.



edit: and example from my own experience is when I was engaged to my ex there were times that we laid together barely spoke just touched and held each and it literally felt like energy. There was no sex some of those times but if there was it was just love making. So yeah if she knows what turns her on mentally she could explain that to someone else that asking about the two...

I'm pretty sure she knows what getting piped down involves even being a virgin

My ex was a virgin and was real descriptive about sex before we did it, made me think she wasn't until we tried, she bled after and it felt like a vice was gripping me during the act

Some virgins got vivid imaginations.



I've been in love with the only two women I've made love to, as in they get the works, methodical, slow, teasing and anticipation build up They also see me the next day as happy to see them as they are to see me, can't go out here making love to everybody though

That was my point...... Most women are emotional creatures and tend to fall in love (figuratively) with what they hear. Women also like to be lead. Look at the animal kingdom. That's why I said asking too much questions could turn her off because it would seem like one has no idea what they are doing. Yes I have a vivid imagination . I could be wrong but if you are brain dead I don't think you could be aroused. People can get turned on just from hearing a sexy accent. For instance I love Carribean accents. I think French/Haitian Creole accents on black men sounds very sexy. Of course I have more to learn but when I think of making love I don't think of someone ramming into me with nothing else. To me that's just f...ing. I'd rather wait until I'm in a serious relationship before being intimate with someone. Everyone won't treat your body the same or try to please you.

 

[Colicat]

My ex was a virgin and was real descriptive about sex before we did it, made me think she wasn't until we tried, she bled after and it felt like a vice was gripping me during the act

Some virgins got vivid imaginations.



I've been in love with the only two women I've made love to, as in they get the works, methodical, slow, teasing and anticipation build up They also see me the next day as happy to see them as they are to see me, can't go out here making love to everybody though

And the point remains that her descriptions were a figment of her imagination

A lot of things are a figment of @agnosticlady 's imagination

 

[Yaboysix]

I'm a hefty nikka.I ain't got stamina for that.

 

[toomanydoses]

Cmon now don't start with the lecture shyt now, nothing wrong with being a virgin. It's like when you're a kid and wanna grow up so bad you miss being a kid when you're older, shyt just gets overly complicated with sex. Was just saying when you get older your expectations are more reasonable than when you were younger.

 

[agnosticlady]

Cmon now don't start with the lecture shyt now, nothing wrong with being a virgin. It's like when you're a kid and wanna grow up so bad you miss being a kid when you're older, shyt just gets overly complicated with sex. Was just saying when you get older your expectations are more reasonable than when you were younger.

I understand

 

[Reality]

It's like his dikk is down 3-1 in a best of 7 series. Can he win game 5 on the road and force a game 6.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

If you gotta ask?

 

[Sccit]

U MIGHT JUST DONT GOT IT

 

[CinnaSlim]

Asking questions isn't necessarily a bad thing.
I like experimenting with my partner, asking them how it feels, what they like best, how I can be better. Those convos don't always have to happen during sex.

Do you like it when I...?
How do you like it, baby?
Does that feel good?
Tell me how you want it.


It also can help as foreplay and build up anticipation. Its also how you get better.

 

[King P]

Love making is definitely more passionate and done at a slower pace. Much more foreplay. It should only be done with girls you're with/really care about.

Any other girl, fukk em. Pun intended :damelo:

 

[Raava]

@Raedawn07

please advise

Sounds like the office

I always thought it was a combination of both when you are in love. Its passion. It doesn't mean slow...its hunger

Whatever I was doing with who I loved, was making love its not a certain way or certain things. Oh yea and kissing If he doesn't even kiss or look at you, you're jump off.