Making love vs. fukking

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TRICK: Making love begins outstide the bedroom. You aren't adoring her outside the bedroom. Appreciating her. Helping her. If you will compliment her more on random times and days; help her cook or clean the kitchen; bring her flowers; take her to her fave restaurant or something; fill up her gas tank; take her car for an oil change; kiss her hello everytime you see her; hug her longer sometimes; tell her you love her when it isn't expected....a woman's sex is in her mind. Open her mind, you open her sex.

In the bedroom, squeeze her tighter. Rub her back firmly while you are holding her. Kiss her face all over. Tell her she smells good. Tell her she is beautiful. Tell her you want her. Tell her what you love about her body. Say these things while you kiss her longer than normal and she'll be open physically and ready. Oral always helps.
 

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Slow deep strokes, kiss her, as u slow down on the strokes and go deeper kiss her neck and slowly move down and suck her t*ts, kiss her stomach and eat her box, use ur hand to grab the small of her back and arch it up so u can really get in there deep. Use ur hands to rub all over her body while ur hitting it. Pay attention to what's more pleasurable to her. fukking ur girl is great and absolutely necessary at times, but there's nothing like making love to a beautiful woman u have a real connection with, anyone who disagrees aint doing it right. Then when she's starting to really get into it and lose control that's when u start fukking her, lift her legs up to get leverage, or turn her around and hit it from behind..sometimes a lil break to go down on her mid fukk even throw in a lil ass lick if u get down like that and she'll completely lose control, plus it'll buy u some time. If u can do all this and last long enough ull never have to worry about sharing that girl.
 

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My girl told me she wanted me too make love the other day instead of just fukking her :dahell:. Brehs and brehettes what's y'all's definition of making love? All I know to do is slow down and kiss her more.. Is it more than that?

Edit: I'm making her cum on the reg.
It's kinda like the difference between eating whatever you have available because you are hungry or eating something delicious satisfying. fukking is mechanical making love is passionate. There is a connection. You look in each other's eyes, kiss passionately. Think of each other's gratification more than your own. It's not about making her cum is holding her tight and taking her breath away.
 

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Probably means your not hitting her spot. There's more to it than just stretching some walls and poking her cervix, breh.
exactly

Her spot is her breasts tho..
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and its sad because the girl probably really likes you, but its getting to the point where she cant deal with the mediocre sex anymore. Been there and it sucks
 
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My girl told me she wanted me too make love the other day instead of just fukking her :dahell:. Brehs and brehettes what's y'all's definition of making love? All I know to do is slow down and kiss her more.. Is it more than that?

Edit: I'm making her cum on the reg.
Touching a woman's face and head, is my key to passion

Kiss a girl.

Now kiss a girl and grab/gentle scratch the back of her head..... Then sometimes hold/slide your hand against her face...... Instant nuts


A lot of women get their romance from books and movies. If you can talk like, act like, be like some dude in a rom com. You're in there 99% of the time
 

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Maybe try asking her what she likes instead of asking the coli what she needs? This is the absolute last place I'd ever come to for advice on women lmao.

Breasts are a part of it yeah, but I can almost guarantee her real spots are between her legs.

Tell her you want to learn how to please her. Put your face in it, use a finger or two, but take your time and let her know you can't know what she wants if she doesn't vocalize her needs while you're down there. She'll appreciate and love you ten times more if you make her feel that she's worthy to be the one to teach you the ways of the female body. This will make up for any deficit you might be in currently.

There's two spots, one is the clit on the outside and the other is a spot right behind it on the inside. If you touch it right for long enough, the outer clit will "get hard". The outer clit has a "shell" on it and the clit's sensitive spot is at the bottom of it, you can feel the opening of it with your fingers. You don't just have to focus on the sensitive spot though. It's more of a starting point to wake it up a little. Watch some porn and pay attention to the techniques the women use when pleasuring themselves.

To know you're touching the inner one is more up to her to let you know, but she probably will when you do. It's not that deep and has a different texture to it. Curve your finger back towards the outside clit as a general area to find it.

It's not about going HAM on them either. If she says keep at it, that means you're at the right place, doing it at the right speed unless she tells you otherwise.

Focus on other areas in the meantime too, don't just rush the clit thinking you're good. Areas such as her breasts and her p*ssy lips are always crowd pleasers. Just keep going back to the clit while you're doing so. Once she's ready for you to be inside she'll usually let you know.

The inner one is actually usually only an inch or two deep so lots of times a short strike is all it takes to keep it stimulated. One trick I do when missionary is to rub her outer clit with my pelvic area while stoking her inner one with my pipe. I usually flex my "muscle" so that it pulls closer to my body and makes an aggressive "V" and then rub her areas in and out of it.

Any session with your lady should involve her busting twice at the very least before you let one off using these techniques. Once armed with the knowledge of a woman's body, fukking and making love will become synonymous with each other, just don't get the wrong one sprung lol.

Maybe you already know this, maybe not. Either way I'm sure this info will help somebody here.
 
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its the same thing

Nah it's not breh. If you believe this then I take it you've never been in love.

Those that have don't necessarily make love every time they lay down together but those times that shyt clicks and souls connect... Yeah, that's making love.
 
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