my homegirls live in nanny recently moved and my friend asked me to help her find someone to watch her two kids at night while she works her night shift as a nurse, i made a few calls and couldnt find anyone who was willing to do it at the price she is offering ($900 a month for 4 nights a week) she literally has no one she can really trust to do it. I thought about offering to do it myself ,since i work and go to school in day, but there is definitely a stigma around male baby sitters. 1) there looked at as soft . and 2) there looked at as pedophiles. should i offer or is it weird? i personally wouldnt leave my daugher if i had one with any males i didnt absolutely trust.