Yeah I agree with alot of this but Red Pill is a lot like Right wing. Of course there will be some things folks can agree with but as a whole it can push some brehs to embrace c00n adjacent ideals. But extremism on both sides is dangerous tbh
The fundamental issue is that you have people who have decided that the world is simple and everything fits into simple categories. When they encounter things that don't fit in their classification system it angers them and they don't know how to cope.
If childbirth is a function of femininity, are women who've had a hysterectomy now no longer women?
What do we make of the paintings of men who killed over 100 men in battle posing wearing high heels(originally created for men) and long hair?
Things have always been more complicated than that. If every feminist is a woman who looks like Fred flintstone with colored hair and septum piercings, what do we make of YouTubers like Tiffany Ferg or Tee noir who embrace feminine things but talk at length about gender?
What do we make of red pill gurus like zyzz and Kevin Samuels working themselves to death or Roosh V who can't get a woman to commit to him now that he wants to settle down and have a marriage and family? The world and people are more complicated than people would have you believe and you can either refuse to engage with these things that don't fit into any category or try to understand them. FD signifier is a married man with children, he has a master's degree and has been making money off YouTube. His wife seems normal and so do his kids. He interviews other men like super eyepatch wolf, that dude is an Irishman who knows MMA and is straight. Is he less masculine?
Red pill is great for waking men up from idealizing women, it's great for telling men that they are in competition and need to bring more to the table than just being a kind person. It tells men to not be afraid of rejection or leaving a toxic relationship. These are all useful things, but at a certain point you have to take the training wheels off and use the bike for real. Relationships are complicated and nuanced. A rigid mind isn't built to handle that.