Males: whats ya main reaction when a female disrespects you?

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fallbacksonn said:
breh i don't see the logic.

if a nikka sayin all that shyt, we throwin hands or we gon have a real man to man discussion.

if a female do that we suppose to about face? i ain't sayin chris brown a female but respect needs to be demanded and walkin away will get them mad but it aint gonna get that demanded respect? feel me?

Respect isn't earned with your fists, but with your mind and your ability to control yourself (and others) under adverse situations. Force only becomes necessary when one's life is at stake. A female yelling @ you is not 'life threatening'. If she doesn't respect you enough not to call you out your name, she sure as HELL ain't gonna respect you if you beat her azz for it. No one else will, either.

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Tell her calmly that her behaviour is disrespectful and I am not gonna put up with it. And if she doesn't check herself immediately, I dead the conversation.

A woman disrespects you because she's not afraid you'll leave. Once you walk away calmly, after letter her know why you're walking away, she knows that she has no power over you.
 

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I find that the level of disrespect received from a woman is proportionate to her confidence that you won't put her out in the cold. It really comes down to what you're willing to put up with. Getting physical is never an option, let me get that out of the way early. If it's something small like commenting on another dude or something with an ex then I just let it be known where I stand on that issue. If we're talking extreme tantrum or name calling trying to elicit a negative reaction from me then I'm not dealing with her beyond that. I don't believe in engaging in such behavior so off to the bushes she goes. I'll let someone else try to handle her.
 

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my own mom doesn't get in my face. the fukk i look like letting another woman do it? First of all it really depends. if she physically got to close to my face and started yelling, i'd probably mush her face. if it's only talk it really depends on why she's doing it. If i feel she wants attention, i just walk away without saying a word. If i feel like she's trying to put on a show for other people and trying to hurt me, i'd drop some ether really calmly and coldly. I say it calm so that people know this is not just emotion talking. And it has to be something even she'll know is true and can't deny. If I have nothing on her then i guess i lost but i'd just walk away...

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A female can't disrespect me because unless it's my mother or my girlfriend, I don't care. A bytch getting in my face being loud is just noise. Hard to give a fukk about some nameless broad who's self-importance is skewed by having seen too many episodes of Real Housewives.

If it was my mother then you just gotta take it cause that's mom.
My girl knows better tho.

I saw a few episodes of reality TV to give it a chance, once. I completely understood why crazy/dumb people act the way that they do. They get their social cues from this garbage and they think it's a socially acceptable way to behave. :wow:

Now I know that people that are crazy and dumb are always going to exist, but that brand was made clear to me because of reality TV.
 

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My main reaction is something to come off as especially calm and cool when they freak out on you. Something along the lines of :mjpls: or :comeon:

The worst mistake you could ever do in an altercation with a woman is lose your cool.
 

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My mother don't even come at my head like that, you think I'm a let a random female talk to any type of way- you must be on that stuff. I would never lay my hands on a women ( I wouldn't want no one to put hands on my mother). Additionally, there is nothing a women can say or do for that matter to get me out of character to the extent that I would put my hands on here. Will I express my opinion if necessary... of course however I learned that the best thing to do is diffuse the situation as quick as possible.

My homie on the other hand is ruthless with his women. He will slap one of his chicks faster then the speed of light. I remember on time his fiance at the time where in the car and he came to pick me up. We riding, talking and whatever and his fiance said something foul to me under her breath. This man said something to the degree of " what did you say" or something similar and she repeated what she said. Next thing I hear is a "smack" and him saying " that's a grown man you talking too, apologize."
 

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i get disrespectful right with them......

fukk u bytch

P.S. The Ravens are going to the superbowl :umad:
 

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I'll just pull my dikk out


You probably do that around these nikkas too :huhldup:

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your lady doesn't want you to go to the club
you get in an argument.
she disrespects you.
you put hands on her.
she calls the police.
you get locked up.

:leon:yo ass didn't make it to the club

My woman knows better. This part would never happen. If your chick disrespects you, it's because she don't fear you. You need to put some fear in that hoe.
 
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In my experience guys seem to fall back on old insults and assume that chicks are all insecure about their bodies. We aren't. Why the fukk you think I take naked pics all the time? Hahaha.
And if a woman is okay with fukkin she must be insecure about something else. So that's what a man picks on when a woman disrespects.

But we remember everything, so no biggie.
 
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