I'm sorry to inform you that's you're white and she's black. You can use the "I was a kid" excuse up until you're 25, we don't get to use that. I bet as a kid, you got to play with a BB gun without getting popped, did Tamir Rice? You got to walk to the store with a hoodie on without being stalked and ultimately lynched, did Trayvon Martin?
Black people don't get to be kids like you did. Im not saying that she needs to be chained to a desk studying but she needs to know all eyes are on her and smoking weed in public and pulling your skirt up twerking is irresponsible.