My Dad was on child support, he always warned me that women will put you on child support...
And he was right, I'm on child support for 3 kids.
But there are things most guys don't know about that will help...things like "mediation"... It's when we met up in court and requested to the Judge that they let us sit one on one with a Lady and get that shyt figured out on the low WITHOUT them getting involved...
I went from my paycheck looking like the one up there to 300 for 3 kids
Most women just want SOMETHING...it could be 25 dollars every payday, long as you TRYING...
Personally, my issue wasn't that I wasn't taking care of my kids, it's that I used to Date new girls and be telling my BMs "I can't get the kids this weekend"
That shyt pissed them the Fck off...they know I'm chill AF and don't shyt bother me, so they said
" Oh, don't worry about it, I got something for YO ass!"
Till this DAY them first child support letters coming in the mail was the scariest shyt that ever happened to me...that Fonky bish REALLY filed papers on me!! I thought she was Talking shyt! My knees buckled like I just got Life sentence.
But nah, after I told child support on the phone that I can't afford to live with this much Garnishment and they told me
"make it enough"
I did, moved outta Palatka and started getting paid DOUBLE what I was making..with more pay PLUS the lowered support from the mediation my pay is gravy, now ...plus, that Fonky bysh put me on child support when my son was damn near a teenager...it's about to Drop off in a couple months cause he turning 18... petty heffa ...