The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
Also, I didn't disrespect you. I believe every word you said because who in their right mind thinks there are no gorgeous 40-50-60 year old women out there. shyt run the numbers up. Angela Basset 70 aint she? Why would that even be my angle? I been to U Street. I been outside since DC Live and the Icebox.We said what we said. And that is not true.
I'm so happy I live in DC. Idk where ya'll live where everyone is ugly and fukked up by 40 y/o. This city is full of beautiful older Millianials. Many are on this forum, men and women.
I just went out to U st 2 weeks ago and I was beating both men and women off with a stick. It got so bad a friend (who had the same issue) just had to step in and say "enough is enough."
Multiple 22+ y/o men were begging me for my phone number. BEGGING! One guy told me "I need you in my life."
I can't tell you how many times I heard "That's what 40 y/o looks like?"
But guess what? I DID NOT WANT TO fukk THEM. I talked to them, even exchange socials and phone numbers with a few just to be polite but that's where it ended.
Those are damn near children to me. I would be disgusted with myself if I did that.
And no they did not look better than the late 30s/early 40s men, especially the one who stepped in, who were there.
That's just pure looks. Let's not talk about the hundreds of other things that make someone attractive.
Most 20 y/o ain't fukking with a 40 y/o in terms of anything but looks and the looks is a strong MAYBE.
That's some sexist, ageist internet weirdo shyt ya'll talking. The real world is not some "this or that" scenario. Real life is incredibly nuanced and dynamic.
I am 40 y/o and I have never looked better and ALL the men who have taken an interest in me lately are YOUNGER than me. They have access to much younger women. I have even seen them reject woman younger.
According to ya'll, I should be basically dead to any man with options at this point in my life. Only old fukked nikkas with back child support and ED should even look my way.
Yeah, as usual ya'll are wrong.
Some of us have more depth than whatever you are talking about. If you don't, coo. But speak for yourself.
I don't not want someone that's 15 years younger than me and idk one person in my age group, man or woman, that is actively pursuing people who are that young.
Keep that cat daddy energy on you bruh bruh.
My point is the same though. Their reaction was based on how good you look. Also because they couldn't believe you are 40.
When you tell 40 year old and older men, how old you are, do they not show the same surprise? Don't they also show disbelief of your age? Do you typically hear, "oh I thought you were older?"
Of course not. Because you're above the norm. A 40 year old bum nikka isn't going to pull an elite 40 year old. He's gonna take his bum ass to Adam's Morgan and try to score thousands of college girls



