Man, I fukked up

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I mean, Lets keep it 100, the op has a point.:yeshrug:

A lot of bw are no different than other races of women when it's comes to what they look for in a brotha.

Yes not all ofcourse but enough for it to be noticeable.
A lot of nikkas don't want to realize this but this is the reason why you see a lot of dudes walking around without gf's or a woman, because bw in particular wants only the cream of the crop. It's evident when you see 80 percent of the women wants only 20 percent of the men.
 

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Dudes wanted it to be Black women so bad :mjlol:

I don't mod TLR :hubie: #happymonday

He got to y'all, eventually. :mjgrin:

And once again black people suck at dating. This is nothing new and we will continue to use and destroy each other. The sooner you accept that, as well as that you're living in the decades of decline of an empire, the more you can focus on living your life to the best of your abilities. There's no turning back this gender civil war and America is dying. Now what? LIVE.
 

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I;m 32.

I don't want to deal with young women anymore. I'm not a college kid like you. I've actually always liked older women, but they were the first to put me in that role.

Eh...
I just have given up on having fufilling healthy relationships with women. It's not happening. Just one night stands and flings that lead to nothing. They never gonna see me as anything more than some player or dog. Like I';m not marriage material. I'm not that man women want to bring home to their fathers. And never will be.
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I've just made peace with the fact there will never be a wifey for me. I'd rather focus on my money and my life situation right now. GFs will be unneccessary distractions and headaches I don't need in my life. I can operate without feeling a significant other defines me as a person. I dont' need someody else to define me as a human being when I do that just fine by mysel;f.

Just women that wanna put me as a side nikka role or never really put me out there as their main.

Im fine with that.

As long as I can work on myself, make money, and do what I want to do with my life I can be at peace with not being in a relationship, having an longterm GF, or getting married.

That shyt's not for everyone.

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I'm not trying to be like everyone else, Im just doing me and trying to enjoy my life.
1. Stop messing with thots.
2. Only deal with women who are serious about building, want to build for friendship, business and goals. Women who really want you never just want to fukk you.
3. Stop hoeing yourself out to thots.
4. Get to know the lady without sex, it will cut off the bullsbit.
5. No white women don't want to marry you, most just want sex for BM unless she looks like Amy Schumer
 

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Man, as a first generation Nigerian/WEst India American, I ain't gonna lie, I've always felt a weird lack of connection with AA women. Just as a cultural barrier and a difference with the way me and most AAs grew up. I dont' like talking about it cause it stressed me out fo ryears and still does. Even my sisters say dthat due to it it's been really difficult dating and getting into relationships cause my family doesn't really want us dating marrying other than nigerian/west indian.

It hurts me in the dating game.

Which why I just get headaches when people just grill me about if I have/had a girlfriend, what race is she...hell even when I do have women in my life I really dont' like telling people about them. Like the race shyt, get the fukk over it. If I wanna be with any type of woman I will...get off my dikk about it. shyt gets on my nerves...and another reason why I just don't bother getting in relationships. Even when I'm with someone I like people grill me about it to the point I get uncomfortable and it just falls apart. Like I want nikkas to get the fukk off my dikk about the women I fukk with....it's none of your fukking business. damn, Being mad nosy to the point I just want to punch somebody in the face.

sorry not directed at you...just always frustrated about that shyt/
If you gonna do you, you gotta except the consequences breh. You are your own man but there is a reason you made this thread. It's because what you think you want might not want you like that.
 
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