Man I think I wanna be single forever...

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Nope. You're making an investment. Your time and effort and emotions, which in a perfect situation will reward you with a long term bond with a wonderful woman.

You can invest in yourself and attract the women you really want. This isn't the 50s
Modern women aren't pair bonding like that...there are no fail safes if she decides to
end it.

Nope. Communication is what makes all this work. If she doesn't think you're committed why the hell would she put in work for you?

Nope. Commitment and laying out all your cards aren't mutually exclusive. She should put in work
because she can be replaced with a younger/fitter version. Your value increases with time...hers declines

Nah. You need to be valuable to her. If you have low value (in reality this is if you have EQUAL value) to her she will run off the first chance she gets.

You need her to have to make a choice between your KNOWN high value and another male that MAY be higher value. Now it's a gamble for her. Make yourself the safe bet.

High status males get the women they want and have options. They don't spoil fat women
because in shape women are a dime a dozen and actually putting in work.

Honestly if she doesn't care about her own health and wellbeing...what makes you think she'll care about you ?

Nope. You proved yourself to be a high value male as well as formed and emotional and chemical bond. This makes her less likely to leave.

Women take things personally. You try and change her and she'll turn that around on you.

Because she will fear losing you to a higher value female. She has to match what you bring to the table.

We're not dropping this on her all of a sudden either. Its a gradual process. If she were to resist this step outright we would cut our losses and move on a long time ago.

She should fear that from day one....women think their intrinsic value lies in just breathing ....good luck with that

Nah. That effort is better served in other areas of your life and attracting the hot women effortlessly

Nope. This is us asking for a return on our invested time, money, and emotions. Relationships are a business at the core. Females understand this. If the female you picked demonstrates that she doesn't understand this, cut your losses.

Imagine an employee telling his boss "I invested blah blah blah" ...what do you think the outcome of that will be ?

You lost the moment you settled for her to begin with.

Why chase a unicorn when you can breed a stallion?

Don't chase unicorns.... harvest carrots and watch stallions flock

Lies. Not wanting your woman to be out and about alone with other men is not abuse.

Tell that to the judicial system and cops as they lock you up.

If the woman you chose does not understand that...cut your losses.

In other words, remain single ? :blessed:

We are all going to die. Does that mean everyone should commit that right now?

What the hell are you talking about ? :dwillhuh:
 

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Its not worth being in a relationship for me.
Its not that I want to be single forever, but to preserve myself mentally and physically I have no choice to be single forever.

Sometimes you just got to come to terms with the fact there will NEVER be ANYONE for you.
 
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