Yeah unpacking foul shyt in our community is tough because blks collectively get demonized for EVERYTHING.Why do people pretend to not know this until it's the holidays and girls are being warned of which uncle's lap to not sit on.
So the defense mechanism is to not wanna admit to wrong about ANYTHING.
Meanwhile a lotta foul ass creeps hide in the shadow of the “don’t blame da po blk man/blk woman” rhetoric.
R. Kellys galore. I think people just get tired of seeing us persecuted while non-blks, who are OG deviants btw, get a slap on the wrist.
But we gotta get over that because our children are the ones who pay the price in the end. And a lotta people refuse to connect the dots.
A lot of these dysfunctional ass relationship issues that some are running to racists to avoid, STEM from brushing a lotta creep shyt under the rug.
Yes I’m talking to these 20, 30 something dudes hanging around high schools messing over young chicks because they were too weird to make normal connections with chicks in their age group.

Yes I’m talking to these nasty ass grown women molesting young boys under the guise of “making a man out of him” or encouraging daughters to pimp themselves out.
But if you have an honest conversation about ANYTHING you hate black men or you are a feminist bytch or you are a pickme male identified mammy or any other dog whistle losers use to avoid critical fukking thinking.
Some of this is also economic for a lotta victims. A grown ass nasty ass man in a old Buick might be looked at as a savior to a young girl in middle school who barely has anything to eat. A nasty ass auntie watching the kids after school might be the only source of food a young g has. People don’t get how emotionally grueling it is for children to have to tell on people who may have helped them in one way to groom them for abuse in another way.
On the other hand, my best friend got falsely accused of molesting a step child. Her husbands BM told the little girl to accuse her. The little girl lied initially, then broke down and cried about it and said she couldn’t do it b/c she felt bad for the accusations when my friend had done nothing BUT try to be a good stepmom to her.
So I’ve seen this type of foul shyt play out from so many different angles that I’m starting to put nothing past ANYBODY.