Man puts hands and feet on his daughter’s boyfriend for being in her room in the bed with her. Drama ensues. Right or wrong?

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Never understood this either. I didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 23. Before that it was all flings and nothing but fun. I don't even see why you would WANT to be in a relationship at that age. Why limit yourself to one person when you should be sewing your oats and having fun, ENJOYING YOUR YOUTH.

With that being said if a man puts his hands on my son we gonna have problems whether he is right or wrong. Only two men on this planet are allowed to discipline my son in that manner and that is me and my dad his grandfather, his uncles can't even discipline him like that. Other than that you should have told my son to leave or call me and I'll personally come drag him out of there myself, but YOU don't do it especially if he is not a threat to anyone's safety. I don't trust you not to go overboard and do too much to him.

People say the boy's mother isn't allowing him to face accountability, if the shoe was on the other foot and the mama caught them in his room together and she dragged the girl out the house does anyone think it would have been a nice civil conversation about that being done to her. If you do think that I have beachfront property in Kansas to sell to you. Stop treating our young boys like.this, you wonder why they grow up and crash out because they got treated like crash test dummies and like they were always wrong when it clearly takes two to tango.

Nah, when I say no relationship I def mean no sexual relations either. You were just as fast and confused as the other kids

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Permission to be on a property can be revoked at any time for any reason. He obviously revoked it, lol.

Even if, that doesn't mean you can batter the trespasser.

 

[HARLEM AL]

You are running to the grave with that mentality. Given the fact that you are still alive and typing on the internet I'm going to call

I dont give a fukk what you talking about lil nikka. When my kids were younger I didnt give a fukk. Your child do something to mine he getting hands put on them if i cant find my lil cousins to stomp you out. And I'd dare their parents to do something.

Been a square nikka all my life but best believe I was with the ignorant shyt when it came to my kids.

 

[FTBS]

These are my sentiments. I'm not gonna pretend like I didn't go to girl's houses in high school but, I was at least smart enough to go right after school and duck out before their parents came home from work. If their dads would've caught me, I would've accepted what came with it This thread reminds me of one girl wanting me to sneak in to spend the night with her talking about her dad never checked on her and I could be out before he got up. I told shorty she was out of her rabid-ass mind smh. Long story short, I have been the boy and now I'm the adult. IMO, this dude is corny for getting his mom involved. He knows he violated. You took the risk and you got caught. Take the L & STFU. No need to go cry to your parents like you're innocent.

Thats my thing...the absolute last people on earth that woulda heard it from me would been my parents...specifically my pops. I remember one time I did some fukk shyt and my neighbor told me "Do it again and I aint even gonna tell your daddy, I'ma whoop your ass myself"...and I was like . All that mattered to me was pops not being involved. I couldnt imagine telling my parents about my own fukkery AND another adult having to check me on top of that.

Take your lumps, be glad he aint really try to hurt you and KIM. Thats accountability. You know you was wrong and you accept what comes with it. Running to tell mommy is weak as fukk . But again, thats her fault.

 

[Piff Perkins]

I think I've read too many stories of dads trying to discipline their daughters' boyfriends and it ending up in tragedy.

Ultimately, you're only really responsible for your daughter, I don't have kids, but I'd like to think I'd be able to establish a relationship with a potential daughter wherein she understands the risks in having boyfriends at a young age, and I wouldn't be allowing them to come/stay over. You need to stress safety and consequences to your kids.

Putting hands on other people's kids - or just putting hands on people in general - can often come with consequences that cannot be walked back

True but at the same time it's a lose lose because if you don't put enough pressure on this situation you end up with a daughter who is a single mother, which basically means YOU are raising the (grand)child because she's not mentally/financially/etc fit to do so. I'm at a point where I just don't think it makes sense to assume most of these young black girls aren't being told about this shyt. Your mother, grandmother, auntie, school....somebody has warned you about these consequences and yet a very large group of black girls/women are still making the worst possible choice they can possibly make.

So if you know the black boy has no discipline, boundaries, or male influence in his home....and you don't believe your daughter is listening to you enough to prevent the worst case scenario (pregnancy)...what do you do, besides find a way to scare the boy away?

 

[boogers]

Need to disclipine the daughter, too many other guys out there that would do the same. she'll end up finding them too. You can't discipline them all, but you can make sure she doesn't bring them home anymore.

my dad tried that approach with my stepsisters. both were pregnant before the age of 20.

 

[FTBS]

The daughter violated the house.

And no, all kids do NOT try their parents.

You right. You got the perfect innocent angels that never try their parents. The other 99.999999% are trying their parents at some point.

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

Even if, that doesn't mean you can batter the trespasser.

I don't know what state this is in, but you can physically remove people in CA for trespassing if you view them as a threat.

CA 3475. Right to Eject Trespasser From Real Property – Law of Self Defense

lawofselfdefense.com

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I hate women like that. Boy moms are one of the worst things this reality ever manifested.

 

[Mugenight]

With that being said if a man puts his hands on my son we gonna have problems whether he is right or wrong. Only two men on this planet are allowed to discipline my son in that manner and that is me and my dad his grandfather, his uncles can't even discipline him like that. Other than that you should have told my son to leave or call me and I'll personally come drag him out of there myself, but YOU don't do it especially if he is not a threat to anyone's safety. I don't trust you not to go overboard and do too much to him.

People say the boy's mother isn't allowing him to face accountability, if the shoe was on the other foot and the mama caught them in his room together and she dragged the girl out the house does anyone think it would have been a nice civil conversation about that being done to her. If you do think that I have beachfront property in Kansas to sell to you. Stop treating our young boys like.this, you wonder why they grow up and crash out because they got treated like crash test dummies and like they were always wrong when it clearly takes two to tango.

Your son play it'll be 3.

 

[verbalkint]

I hate women like that. Boy moms are one of the worst things this reality ever manifested.

They definitely have a collection of matching pj Xmas pics with just them two.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You right. You got the perfect innocent angels that never try their parents. The other 99.999999% are trying their parents at some point.

Naw I'm wrong 100% of teen daughters was sneaking dudes in to smash under their parents' roof.... You Right....you right-


Damm my parents deserve awards.

I never thought about disrespecting their home by fukking in it as a teen.

Literally only time I had sex under my parents' roof was with my wife.


I wasn't a degenerate loser tho
And my parents were active parents.


I guess yo kids some hooligans.
Who knows what ya daughter doing.

 

[Dorian Breh]

Hit my kid, see what happens to you

Hell, hit some kid I know thats not yours, see what happens to you

Hell, hit your own kid and I find out, see what happens to you

 

[FTBS]

Naw I'm wrong 100% of teen daughters was sneaking dudes in to smash under their parents' roof.... You Right....you right-


Damm my parents deserve awards.

I never thought about disrespecting their home by fukking in it as a teen.

Literally only time I had sex under my parents' roof was with my wife.


I wasn't a degenerate loser tho
And my parents were active parents.


I guess yo kids some hooligans.
Who knows what ya daughter doing.

Trying isnt just fukking people. Its doing anything your parents wouldnt want you to do/told you not to do. Overwhelming majority of kids do this at some point.

 

[god shamgod]

Where the video of the father beating him up?

Don’t nobody wanna hear this long faced nikka analysis tf