as I said before you don't seem to understand the issue.
Contraceptives aren't fool proof
never claimed they were, but with contraceptives+condoms it's nearly impossible for a woman to get pregnant.
. Whether or not you want to have kids, they are a possible outcome of sex. They are the whole biological reason for sex.
sure
Which is why as a man you should be careful who you fukk. You are not going to change the system facing a child support judgment.
again, being careful who you fukk or getting a girl pregnant is not the problem here, and as I said in an earlier posts women are not innocent bystanders in this, a woman can keep her legs shyt just like a man can
I'll break it down for you
>boyfriend and girlfriend have sex
>girlfriend gets pregnant
>boyfriend asks her to get an abortion
>girlfriend says 'no, i want to keep it'(notice that she has a choice here)
>boyfriend has no say in anything and is forced to provide for a child he did not want
and please, don't reply to this with something stupid like 'w-w-well if he didn't want the child he shouldn't have been having sex', you should know that when people have sex most of the time it's for pleasure not to create a child.
Nobody forced that man to get that woman pregnant. If he wanted to guarantee against that outcome he shouldn't have fukked
Mind pointing me to the where I said or even implied that they were forced to fukk? No, sex is usually a consensual act. What outcome? Not having to raise a child he does not want? Not having a child? 'LOL JUST DONT HAVE SEX' sounds great and all but it doesn't work in the world we live in and is not a solution to the problem(it doesn't even address the problem). Unmarried people in superficial relationships are going to have sex, you cannot change this(unless you change the current attitudes americans have toward sex). The problem is not random pregnancies, the problem is what happens after the woman is pregnant, I don't see why you're having such a hard time understanding that(maybe you do understand it, maybe you just haven't actually addressed the problem).
not a solution
Clearly if the woman is having the kid she wanted to have it.
not exactly, I don't know how much experience you have with these things but it doesn't usually go that way. Usually, the woman has no interest in having a kid, but when she becomes pregnant she changes her mind.
So you agree that men should stop sticking their dikk in everything that moves
I think men, especially black men should
but you don't want to hold them responsible for getting women pregnant.
sure they are responsible just as much as the woman is but again, that isn't the issue.