Man says he doesn’t want to date woman with teenage daughters. Content creator says it’s cos he’s a perv.

[newarkhiphop]

Creator is proving the exact point

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Thoughts? It could go both ways. But I’m thinking he means that dating a woman that has teenage daughters leaves the door wide open for a bunch of problems. He’s not their dad, he has no authority to say shyt about the way they dress, talk and act they’re almost grown, walking round their own house any kind of way and he is no no position to say shyt. He can’t ask them to put clothes on if they’re in their house dressed down in what makes them comfortable. Accusations can start flying about not being able to control himself. He may be able to interact better with teenage boys. Iunno; what yall think? Is the creator reaching or is this man protecting himself?

Hmmmm

If a breh finds a cool single mom and she's got an 11 year old, a 13 year old and a 15 year old.....all girls.......

He shouldn't be out there trying to be their father. More like a mentor. Someone they can talk to and learn about teen boy logic and how to deal with bullshyt at school. Momma shouldn't put him in the position of disciplinarian. That's HER job. He's got to build a rapport before that would work.

Teenage boys have the high T, so their issue is mostly just being hella aggressive and extra. Teen girls hormones fluctuate all over the place. One minute they gon be chill, then confident, then insecure and sad, then angry etc. A grown man shouldn't be uncomfortable if his heart is in the right place, but he can't overstep. Momma can't hide behind him and make him the boogeyman. She gotta handle the hard shyt.

 

[mbewane]

Now it's gonna be problematic if you DONT want to be around teenage girls

 

[UpThruDere]

Didn’t watch the vid but I would still understand the point especially if it’s a woman you’re just smashing that already has hoe tendencies as evident by being quick to bring you anywhere around their children, the last thing you need is her little hoe in training getting you caught up in anything, I can speak from experience you go to their house and the daughter is walking around acting like Sexyy Red and the mom is acting oblivious like it’s normal

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Imagine the type of weirdo you have to be that you mad that a person doesn't want to date someone with kids.

 

[Uachet]

He is right to avoid them.

What made me stop seeing one of the two older women I was involved with in my early twenties was a comment she made to me one day. She was 34, her daughter—whom I later found out was 14—and I was 23 at the time. This woman had the nerve to jokingly tell me that I could be dating her daughter. I didn't take it as a joke, though, because I immediately recognized the precarious situation she had just put me in. So I ghosted her after that statement.

The really treacherous part was that she showed up at my apartment a month later and said to me, “You know I’m the one for you.”

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

I understand breh

Thoughts? It could go both ways. But I’m thinking he means that dating a woman that has teenage daughters leaves the door wide open for a bunch of problems. He’s not their dad, he has no authority to say shyt about the way they dress, talk and act they’re almost grown, walking round their own house any kind of way and he is no no position to say shyt. He can’t ask them to put clothes on if they’re in their house dressed down in what makes them comfortable. Accusations can start flying about not being able to control himself. He may be able to interact better with teenage boys. Iunno; what yall think? Is the creator reaching or is this man protecting himself?

i understand breh…

1. I wouldn’t date a single mom.
2. If I did, I’d want her kids to be grown or like under 5

 

[SpikeLee Cumbersmith]

Dating someone with teenage children is a problem regardless of gender. The patterns of conduct have already been established. You're inviting needless conflict into your life. I don't even entertain women who have grown children living at home. Come by, drop off the vajayjay,and finish doing your job.
Full disclosure _ single man without any biological children.
The content creator is a Muddy Boots.

 

[TheDarkCloud]

It can also be construed as that he does not want to date a woman with teenage children of any gender because there is a power struggle and you will come in and immediately be there to "replace their father" when they are damn near an adult already and will never see you that way

But.... he did mention "daughters" with emphasis though, instead of saying teenage children

This.

If he had worded it like this, I would get it. But him putting emphasis on DAUGHTERS, is very strange.

It's pedo energy.

 

[Commish]

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to date certain ppl. It would be wise for a man not to involve himself with a woman who has minors, especially if said minors are daughters.

I don't like it when ppl try to place certain labels upon those who don't deserve it. Breh should focus on the type of women who brings him peace.

 

[5n0man]

Sounds like breh might've had a bad experience with some teenage girl, or he's heard stories and is trying to avoid that situation entirely.


Real predators seek out women with kids.

 

[bnew]

The video isn’t available for me; what are they about? Just a synopsis would be great if possible. Thanks

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[General Mills]

He’s PROTECTING himself because little girls lie or misconstrue things. Their mothers do also. How many fathers or step fathers been falsely accused of inappropriate stuff ON PURPOSE? Too many.

The creator is a dumbass. This generation of thinking is cooked.

This still make me mad to this day.

 

[CodeKansas]

Them little mfs'll lie on his ass with the quickness.

He is absolutely right for not wanting to deal with that.

You not only gotta worry about cops, but relatives quick to beat up/shoot somebody if the lie is good enough.

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

Thoughts? It could go both ways. But I’m thinking he means that dating a woman that has teenage daughters leaves the door wide open for a bunch of problems. He’s not their dad, he has no authority to say shyt about the way they dress, talk and act they’re almost grown, walking round their own house any kind of way and he is no no position to say shyt. He can’t ask them to put clothes on if they’re in their house dressed down in what makes them comfortable. Accusations can start flying about not being able to control himself. He may be able to interact better with teenage boys. Iunno; what yall think? Is the creator reaching or is this man protecting himself?

It's sounded a little at first, but then he started talking about rapport and it made more sense. When it comes to life lessons, obedience, etc. he may have trouble controlling the situation. He's not dad.

And there is always the potential of weaponized allegations. He didn't want to say that directly.