UncleTomFord15
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A large portion of black women hate black men and look at us as the enemy.
I agree. The cult of the blk mother is just as nefarious as the cult of the blk male.
These cults are really farces blks hide behind to avoid accountability. In our race, we have been blamed arbitrarily for so much that we refuse to take accountability for anything.
So if u say anything about a blk male, ur bashing.
But blk women have a cult that is just as pervasive. Blk motherhood cult makes it seem like any chick who pops out a child is blameless. Above reproach. Can't touch her.
But they can be just as racist, negligent, abusive, sexually abusive and psychotic as anybody else. And are turning out blk males and females who suffer from PTSD from enduring the shyt their moms put them thru.
But say anything about them and you get "do you hate ur mother?!"
Me: "No b/c my mom was about something. But some of these bytches are legit trash that never should have been nutted in.
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Both are idiots and arrogant in their stupidity. They operating from base biology. Women like babies and family and security. Men like sex.
But they wanna live reckless and then blame somebody else. Deep down a lot of these types want babies too but don't want the responsibility that comes with either past getting some attention for a cute baby. That's what happens when u got children stuck in grown ass bodies. Children do shyt without thinking it thru and then blame others or move on without accountability.
Then they rely on the Cult of the Black Woman of the Order of the Black Man to juke move out of being held accountable.
"How dare you speak ill of a blk woman! Don't u have a mother or a sister?!"
"You just hate blk men! Ur bashing black men!"
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That Cult of the Black Man is strong.
"Sooo about R. Kelly and sexual abuse in our community?"
"Fukk deez hoes!" "Dem blk bytches fast anyway!"
"Ya'll always tryin to bash a black man!"
"bytches luv him so..." "Feminism!"
And if a random blk dude comes thru with some common sense:
"Yeah guys we do need to tighten up..."
"FUKK YOU PANDERER!" "MALE FEMINIST!!!"
Cult of the Blk Man is only rivaled by
The Cult of the the Blk Woman...
"Sooo blk woman, what do you bring to the table?!"
"Don't you have a mother?!""You HATE BLK WOMEN!" "BLAME US FOR EVERYTHING!" "Self-hater!"
(It's not even an answer...LMAO!)
And if another blk women points out the inconsistencies...
"That bytch ain't got no ring either. Guess being a "pick me" hoe ain't working!"
Blk men and blk women got iron clad, albeit irrational, defense mechanisms against ANY accountability.
Cult Accountability Playbook
1.) Blame the opposite sex. "Feminism is the problem!"
2.) Insult the person broaching the issue. "Why you bashing us?!" "Why do you hate black women?"
3.) Play victim. "We just tryin to make it out here!"![]()
Who other than an idiot says you can? We gotta stop letting hurt people control the narrative.
Virtually nobody that is somebody is saying they hate blk men. But in today's culture if you make ANY complaint, ur an basher, a hater, a "feminist", a panderer, a...a...a...
The cult of the black man and the cult of the black woman are A1.
People are speaking AT each other instead of listening and emphathizing. Honestly some of the shyt I've heard blk men and blk women say to one another is oftentimes so out of touch with reality that it's useless to even discuss shyt b/c it's less about trying to see each other's perspective and more about trying to out victim each other while saying soulless shyt. Honesty is a big no-no.
Lol! This is usually how I feel when dudes deny that females can be Incels.
Cult of the blk man and cult of the blk woman makes discourse impossible.
It's all about MY PAIN!!!!!
Oh and of course your bashing if you say ANYTHING about the opposite sex.
It's deeper than this but cult of the blk male isn't gonna allow for honest discourse just like cult of the blk woman gets on a victim soapbox anytime you discuss their issues.
It is what it is.
You right.
I've said this time and time again. Cult of the black male and cult of the black female try to demonized people who reveal anything fukked up about their gender b/c they mad that white people get away with their fukkery.
But the problem is whites have been empowered to be evil deviants. We don't need that same energy in our community.
Telling people to STFU to protect celebrities out of racial or gender solidarity is stupid.
Wrong is wrong. We gotta stop letting our worse elements represent our whole. Cut these sorry a$$holes off at the neck.
And no that doesn't mean that R.Kelly wasn't talented. It's just that his talent isn't more important than the lives of the children he fukked over.
Yes...children. Not hoes. Not bytches. Not fast ass loose ass sluts. Or any other word we use to gloss over the fact that we hypersexualize our children to give passes to grown ass blk men who "hood hunt" in impoverished blk communities or the blk females who pimp their own children.
Poverty creates exploitable conditions, but I'm glad people are speaking out b/c all these young blk females who were messed over in their youth and all these young blk males who were molested in their youth grow up to be the same ones who hate men, who turn to homosexuality, who hate women, who create dysfunctional relationships, who molest and victimize other children.
That's a layer of shyt people are NOT ready for.
The role of women complicit in providing celebrities with their children and the hero worship or celebrities in our community by blk females...
I mean if I talk about how fatherless blk males revere hip hop artists as gods and surrogate fathers, The Cult of the Black male will give me some hell.
But if we talked about parental irresponsibility and how many of these moms literally handfed their babies to R&B stars or are not only participants but gatekeepers in the child sex slave trade...my ass might get missing.
When I worked in middle school, one of the largest child prostitution rings caught was run by females.
Cult of the Black Female is just as unaccountable as the Cult of the Black Male.
Blks have a problem with accountability. All the deflection, and excuses is a result of us being unfairly blamed for everything and lied on in a racist white world. I've said this here before but because we have been blamed for EVERYTHING, we don't want to be held accountable for ANYTHING.
But we can't save everybody in our race. A bum bytch using her kids as commodities and stealing their innocence or pimping them out KNOWINGLY to her bf just so she can say she gotta man, ain't the hoe that represents me as a black female. Her ass can and SHOULD go down.
It's the same with R. Kelly and all the excuses we make for these types do NOTHING to strengthen our community.
We don't have the same leeway to stay "on code" like white people and sweep our shyt under the rug and get away with it. Nor should we want to or aspire to. Whites are not a moral compass. Exactly the opposite in history's opinion.
So instead, we have to teach our lessers how to be human. That means when shytty people do shytty shyt, call em out. We are better than the colonizers.
Bitter bytch brigade decided to share legitimate women's rights banners with the gay agenda. (Personally I think two lonely groups just decided to "YAAAAASSSSSS" together).
The problem is women, particularly black women, have always had their normative femininity attacked. They already get stereotyped as masculine or manly. Welp whites love fukkery and the same idiots who bytch about their femininity being attacked will live to see trannies and gay chicks represent them in the media b/c it fulfills several requirements of white supremacy: a.) continued marginalization of blk females to continue the war on their psyche, b.) continual undermining of their femininity by sneakily switching out blk women roles and replacing them with trannies in the media and other representative platforms.
(And this also presents another issue with blks being dependent on white media for representation---ya see why my posts be so long...there are levels to this shyt.)
Meanwhile many in the LGBTQhdjuebdb community are racist as fukk themselves. It's like c00ns and c00nettes each chose up on some silly ass bedfellows in their idiotic fight against one another in their own race. Blk male c00ns chose white bytches and you can read me laughing at those dummies in another post. Meanwhile, bitter blk bytches chose Ru Paul.
shyt is chess. Ain't be checkers in a LOOOOONG time. But nobody listens and cult of the black man and blk woman get mad respectively if u point out their flaws.
"PICK ME!"
"BLACK MAN BASHER!"
Don't matter to me. Imma get these chuckles off.![]()
One-sided criticism is never constructive. There’s plenty of blame to go around for the destructive elements of our community.
The most irritating aspect of black men and black women is both sides being unwilling to be introspective about the fukk ups of their respective genders.
shyt gets so old. If you say anything about blk women, the Cult of the black woman is ready to come accuse you of hating your own mom or being a pick-me.They hit you with that Kerry Washington distraught how dare you reaction
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but blk men are the same damn way. Any intimation that they got issues is met with the “u hate blk men” or “FEMINIST bytch” brigade.
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It’s almost comical at this point.
To be honest, there’s nothing we do worse than any other race of people except for our willingness to believe the worst of each other and want to see each other humbled or humiliated.
It’s the dumbest shyt in the world. The lengths we go to jukemove outta accountability while simultaneously accusing each other of doing the same thing is baffling.
No problem in our community can be discussed as an isolated fault of black men. Same for blk women. We got in this mess together and that’s how we’ll get out.
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Issa a cult. Deflection. Defensiveness. Blame everybody else. Rinse and repeat. (Sigh)This is why you can’t take anything said online too seriously.
Venters will vent and don’t want accountability for themselves.
I call it the Cult of the Black Man and the Cult of the Black Woman.
Whenever you confront any black man with his hypocrisy as a female you’ll get that lone Glory tear running down that cheek and accusations of bashing or hating black men.
“FEMINIST bytch!!!”
“Why you wanna bash da po black man!”
Anytime you talk about colorism or IR dating issues, it’s PAWGS, PAAGS, FOREIGN GANG for some basic non-blk chicks.
Say anything positive about a pretty black chick and “elbows too pointy” “meh” “average at best”.
But with black women, it’s the same nonsense. Tell a black woman ANYTHING about herself and you get hit with the pain of 800 generations of po black women trauma from the Color Purple.
“You HATE BLACK WOMEN!”
“You must be talking about your mama when you talk like that.”
Divesters and swirlers will talk about non-Blk men all day, but still look like they sucking on lemons when a Blk dude dates out. Talk about blk female colorism and sexual predation and CRICKETS.
And anyone in their respective gender that “breaks code” and confronts their own inconsistencies is called “simp” “pickme” “capin for these hoes” “mammy”.
Neither party wants to hear the truth. I’ve got thousands of posts with people literally calling me every name in the book from feminist to elitist to bedwench to pickme just for being honest.
I’ve even gotten cursed out for posting stats and studies to back up my claims…like they mad at me like I created the study.
People are a trip online but it’s just people getting in their emotions and being hurt.
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I don’t know if you been asleep the last 6 years but the power hierarchy in the Black community goes:
Black trehs
black women
Black gay nikkas
Black children
Black girls/boys
Black men.
This thread is proof of it, cuz any time nikkas call out the bullshyt they get called a momma hating incel
If we had power our criticisms of “lose weight, wear your own hair, and change your attitude” would be adhered to, but since we are powerless we get:
Stop deflecting, thank you.
Now we're getting somewhere.We've lost the control of our women with all the lying, pandering and not checking our women just to smash.
And a large portion of black men have black women and view them as the enemy instead of focusing on systemic white supremacy. Black women remind them of their own self-hate and struggle in society so they demonize anything black and female while denying their own psychological problems and issues they have just like their women. Many think non-blks can save them.A large portion of black women hate black men and look at us as the enemy.
I don’t know if you been asleep the last 6 years but the power hierarchy in the Black community goes:
Black trehs
black women
Black gay nikkas
Black children
Black girls/boys
Black men.
This thread is proof of it, cuz any time nikkas call out the bullshyt they get called a momma hating incel
If we had power our criticisms of “lose weight, wear your own hair, and change your attitude” would be adhered to, but since we are powerless we get:
Stop deflecting, thank you.
Good postAnd a large portion of black men have black women and view them as the enemy instead of focusing on systemic white supremacy. Black women remind them of their own self-hate and struggle in society so they demonize anything black and female while denying their own psychological problems and issues they have just like their women. Many think non-blks can save them.
And many non-Blk trolls get online and join these conversations to instigate arguments because they like seeing Blk dysfunction to deflect from the fukkery in their own culture.
I would argue it's closer to resentment than hate.A large portion of black women hate black men and look at us as the enemy.
Underrated post. Dude's here have axes to grind and huge chips on their shoulders and it shows. Conversation will never get anywhere. It's entertaining though.You dudes never want to start a sensible discussion on what Black men or women need to do to be better in your opinion.
It's always some shyt like "nikkas ain't shyt" or "BW are the weak link" or some derogatory shyt like that no intelligent good faith discussions. And wonder why you get derogatory comments in return.
Do y'all want to start a dialogue or just mudsling your own race?
Nah. This isn’t the real issue. It was never about control in the first place. It’s about structual racism negatively impacting black men and women’s ability to progress in society and us blaming each other, stereotyping each other for not saving one another from this sorry system.We've lost the control of our women with all the lying, pandering and not checking our women just to smash.
So words are enough to stop you from doing what needs to be done? Who cares what people SAY? What power does that have over you that you can't take action? You don't see how ridiculous that sounds?
This is what one has to do if they don't interact with people on the regular. I'm seeing very little real life anecdotes in here. Very telling.Nikkas in here posting tweets of insignificant nobodies to support their arguments. No wonder people have relationships problems.