This confuses me. My husband told me early on that it's some stuff he'd have to do and say to my son that I might not understand as a woman, and that I needed to trust that he knows better than me how to raise a boy to a man. And I was like okay. And if I hadn't been okay with it, trust and believe he was gonna do it anyway.
So I don't understand how fathers, who are just as entitled to parenting as mothers, are somehow being prevented from actually doing that work. I don't gaf what black women say. We CAN'T do it alone, at least not properly. It's just words.
Your husband. Which means you two live together and raise a son together. Too many people having babies out of wedlock and then thinking they can be as an effective parent than a married couple.