Many Black Women Don't Want A "Good Man"

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Good thing you posted a woman with these viewpoints OP because if it was a man doing the video. This thread will be full of simps and females insinuating that the dude got some issues with women, hes a hurt, hes angry, hes a incel, and so on.

Edit: But even then the simps still came through. :francis:
 
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It's not really about "good" or "bad".....It's more about disorder & chaos.Some people don't have the knowledge, discipline, or overall pedigree

to build a harmonious relationship.That's why society is so "OCD" when it comes to relationships & dating.Always fumbling, tinkering, trying

to fix damaged people.On the surface, you might think an OCD person is someone who's "super clean" & despises untidiness/disorder........

But a more astute mind will understand it's not about those things at all.The OCD individual is actually ATTRACTED to "trash" in some cases.

It's a way to escape the gnawing boredom & keep their mind preoccupied from the chaos going on inside their head.They get a rush of excitement

when they find something to "fix" or clean up.In many cases, broken people.Both genders do it.I knew a chick with this psychosis.She was always

cleaning up shyt.Wherever she stayed, she kept that shyt spic & span.Constantly constantly cleaning.Couldn't be still......but when you saw the

guys she dated, they'd be the dirtiest/bummiest/most toxic type of guys you'd ever meet.She was attracted to trash/disorder in more ways than one.

Of course there's other ways OCD can be expressed, but I think a lot of people are low key guilty of this when it comes to relationships.ADD/low

attention spans, boredom....All that shyt can lead to escapism.I think the most dangerous woman in the world is a woman who's easily bored....

The top 2 reasons women go to the "dark side" is jealousy & boredom.Pay close attention.When you spot those OCD/ADD/Escapist signs,

hit the eject button.Not saying you can't hold a woman like that down.Just saying, if you take your eyes off her for too long, they might become

restless.They'll be tinkering around, cleaning(tongue bathing) another ball sack.You know, the "Choosy Suzy" types who escape into another

guy every 3 months.I've also found these types will turn to drugs when the boredom/chaos becomes too loud.It's sad because some of these

women can be real sweethearts.They just can't turn off the chaos.This mentality in men can turn them into the ultimate :cape:..To the

point where they'll secretly get off to putting women in challenging situations, just so they can turn around and save them.Getting that "I fixed it!"

high.It also has something to do with the "Make up to break up" dynamic.Fiening the disorder because it gives you something to fix.Fixing shyt

makes you feel needed & gives you a sense of value.Obviously, this is just a single branch on the problem tree.It's just a lil small detail I've learned

to look out for.Just thought I'd throw it out there
 

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Is she the male equivalent of this nikka?


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That's right. I'm starting to notice no matter how good looking or ugly a person is, whatever they lack in sex appeal they try harder in something else.
4 example like a chick who is hot with a killer body but really is a book worm so she acts all loud to hide it or she gets clowned for being a nerd.
Another example is when a broke dude trying to flex with shyt he cant afford.

I think the real problem with us as a whole is we want to make superficial shyt something a big deal because false meanings give a motive for purpose that dont actually answer this.

It's just safer to say that the brain only cares "I'm about good looks or exciting personalities" and doesn't have any real reason outside of that because it feels good to try to have that person

A female nerd does not carry the same stigma as a male nerd and I've never heard anyone clowning an attractive woman for being a bookworm. It's usually considered a good trait.
 

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Who is everyone?

Definitely not men in the dating game, if anything nerdy soft-hearted women are romanticized as ideal.

:mjlol: say that though? Oh word that's what's in? Oh ok that's what's up.
Thats how your hood rock family? You out here macking on pawgs into harry potter breh? :mjlol::wow:

:dwillhuh: how you even seriously entertaining this ?:what:
 
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