A couple years ago when I was in college I met this tall thick darksin chick at my internship. At first I had no interest in her but as we spent time together we fell for each other. We spent the summer together going to parties, concerts, amusement parks, fukking, being lovey dovey and shyt. Still my favorite summer tbh. It was also dope cause she was one of those overachieving types so she kept me motivated and put me onto a bunch of shyt that's still helping me now. After the summer ended we decided to do the long distance thing cause I was in school on the east coast and she went to school down south. My first mistake. Before she left I bought her a birthday gift that I really couldn't afford to show her how I felt about her. My second mistake. So we both leave for school and we talk everyday. She used to help me write my papers, when went home for thanksgiving I met her folks, I was cool with her friends. shyt was cool. One day we're texting and she's telling me how she's started working out and how she got a trainer. You already know where this is going
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I'm like "that's whats up, who is it?" She tells me it's one of her male friends from school. I'm like "what?" She's like "yeah, he's been wanting to get into training for awhile and he said he wouldn't charge me so it seemed like a good fit." I tried to tell her dude was plotting on her but she told me that they were just friends
and I was being insecure. I let it go. Mistake #3. Fast forward to Valentines Day. Her birthday is in between Christmas and V-Day so we agreed that I'd just get her something for V-Day instead of all 3 days. It was my first V-Day being in a relationship, and it was her birthday & Christmas gift so I went super simp
. All together I spent about $400 on her shyt. $400 I didn't really have either. Mistake #4. She was happy as shyt and called me all emotional talking bout "no dude had ever gone that OD for her". Told me she loved me
. Like a week later I see a friend of her's snapchat and on there I see "my girl" cuddled up with the trainer nikka she told me not to worry about. I confronted her about it and she tried to apologize and say it wasn't what I thought it was but I wasn't going for that shyt. Dropped her ass and blocked her on everything. This was like 3 years ago. Saw her over the summer, we talked and we cool now. She still with that nikka too so
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I deserved that L for being a sprung simp ignoring the signs. I was like 21 and she was 19 tho. shyt happens.
I've had good V-days since.
next time.
" with no shame
but props to you man
Million dollar gem
