"Marriage Is the Most Difficult, Grueling, Excruciating Thing" - Will Smith

[Youseenmywork]

I'm glad u don't either. Would be a waste of time for both parties.

My time ....my charm ...my chrisma ...my intellectually conversation( NO women has ever stimulated me mentally I wanna add). My humor So what am I saying ? The most attractive women that you can think of for example I have spent 15 yrs or more trying to have my personality be as attractive as let's just say ...you are. My sex is cheap but the man I've been chasing since I was 19 is going to be earned. Most women I've talked to I've created the interaction out of thin air there is no women that works as hard on being great and not average as me. My question at 31 is why do I have been as creative and women don't? Why don't you have to be 3/4 of what I HAVE to be ?


Ps. I will articulate my response to your original post. I wanna articulate my response from a male perspective.

 

[Nomadum]

Absolutely. I'd never speak in absolutes as no one size fits every situation. Hell, a few of the most fukked up people I know came from good households

lol real talk, same here. I'm not going to pretend as if I know all the answers but just from my experiences I know that household style (broken or intact) doesn't dictate a child's path.

I got a breh I've been cool with thru mutual breh's. he has a intact house hold, parents pulling 6 figures apiece and he doesn't want for nothing. breh get's to college and start flashing hamma's on people, and the whole time I'm like this dude know he not built for it nor was raised like that.

and I know some who had a shytty parental structure and became very successful individuals, happy with their line of work and drama free. so it's a toss of the dice in some sense.