She actually caught me by surprise!  I was 

      I said What?  I remember we were in our room and she was folding up my draws. . She looked at me in my eye and said.  No.  

   She said it cold as fukk. . And continued to fold clothes.   I was 

 at this turn of events. . I did not expect this at all. . . I kinda told her my heart and how I was feeling and she was 
 
I was like  

  Well things can not keep continuing like this at ALL.
She paused in her folding and said why not?

  Its been going this way for a year and you had no complaints.
I was 

 cause this was all truth. I literally had no one but myself to blame. . I was so busy sucking shyt up I did not speak up for myself when I was not happy. . I just rolled with that shyt. . As far as her. She was living the dream. She told me she was VERY HAPPY. And saw zero reason to change.
She wanted to play rough?  I told her then if you are unwilling to compromise with me a little then I want a divorce. I am not asking you to go to the strip club or Freaknik. I am asking to go to the movies with my wife. 
 
She finished her folding and looked at me again. .And said no. 
 
I was 

 again.