Married at first sight. Is Jasmine right or entitled?
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Her logic doesn't add up and what she's proposing is odd in a marriage where 2 are supposed to be 1. The husband being a provider comes from a time where a woman was a homemaker who would take care of the household duties while the husband was away at work, she seems to work and lacks basic household skills such as cooking. If she were to be a homemaker in full then the arrangement makes sense. And what is she going to do with her extra money outside of her marriage? What could she possibly do with her money that benefits her marriage more than lessening the burden on her husband? That kind of greed is unacceptable in a partnership.
DropTopDoc
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When she said that, my question was what are you planning to do with your check ??
A lot of women want traditional, but the way times are now, you either need double income, or if you have the luxury to not use both incomes, you should be saving and investing
A lot of women want traditional, but the way times are now, you either need double income, or if you have the luxury to not use both incomes, you should be saving and investing
Brolic
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The majority of the women in the comment section are saying the man is supposed to provide, the bible said men are supposed to lead, he was probably raised by a single mother, 50/50 isn't reasonable, he's soft. If a man pays the a majority of the bills and the wife is still working a full time job, what does she do with her money? The man is supposed be stressed and broke, so the woman can relax and spend her money on anything she wants?
That’s woman’s logic in the age of gender equality. Some of the best advice, I’ve ever received was to never take on more than what you can do for yourself.The majority of the women in the comment section are saying the man is supposed to provide, the bible said men are supposed to lead, he was probably raised by a single mother, 50/50 isn't reasonable, he's soft. If a man pays the a majority of the bills and the wife is still working a full time job, what does she do with her money? The man is supposed be stressed and broke, so the woman can relax and spend her money on anything she wants?
Never know when you’ll have to cut a chick off. Women are notorious for pulling those stunts. I rather that woman not work then her hoarding her to set herself up nicely.
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She’s not wrong and she’s not right depending on what you choose to agree with. She’s believes in and wants a traditional type of gender role relationship and she let him know. I ain’t mad. And she even said she’d be cool with a 70/30 split on the bills.
I’m all for a traditional gender role relationship if she truly is willing and competent in handling those things I’d expect a woman to handle, while I do the things a man is expected to handle.
In this day and age a lot of men and some women want too, do want the independent gender role thing, where both sides take equal responsibility on all the running of a household. I’m a traditional guy because I know female nature is to want to be led by a strong head of the household.
I’m all for a traditional gender role relationship if she truly is willing and competent in handling those things I’d expect a woman to handle, while I do the things a man is expected to handle.
In this day and age a lot of men and some women want too, do want the independent gender role thing, where both sides take equal responsibility on all the running of a household. I’m a traditional guy because I know female nature is to want to be led by a strong head of the household.
That's how I feel.
I don't mind taking care of most of the bills, but if she works, she should be investing and saving for "us".
I'm not with the her money is her money, to go clothes shopping and spending care free...
I pay all bills. Mortgage, cars, phone, electric, water, cable... You name it but I could still have about a nice chunk of change at the end of the month so I save it.
We do all the fun stuff with my wife's check like going to dinner and the movie and stuff.
We do all the fun stuff with my wife's check like going to dinner and the movie and stuff.
Action Mike
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Ain't no bytch that look like that asking me to all her bills 
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I would have asked for a divorce right there. I gotta pay all the bills and stop doing shyt for myself so I can make ends meet? While I’m still paying for all the dates? I’m not really seeing a benefit to that. What does he gain? Dude was single right? So he was cooking and cleaning on his own. What does she bring besides increasing his bills? If he’s paying for everything is she going to concede all decision making on how money is spent to him?
There's a reason why she had to go find a RAMDOM STRANGER to marry her bum butt 
When you see a women over 30 that ain't got no man that wants to marry them.....THATS A RED FLAG
These damn dummies.....t
She wants to make her money and send his money....hoe said 70-30
he pays 70% of all bills and she pays 30% but she's a strong independent women
When you see a women over 30 that ain't got no man that wants to marry them.....THATS A RED FLAG
These damn dummies.....t
She wants to make her money and send his money....hoe said 70-30
he pays 70% of all bills and she pays 30% but she's a strong independent women