Married at first sight. Is Jasmine right or entitled?

AceMan

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She’s not wrong and she’s not right depending on what you choose to agree with. She’s believes in and wants a traditional type of gender role relationship and she let him know. I ain’t mad. And she even said she’d be cool with a 70/30 split on the bills.

I’m all for a traditional gender role relationship if she truly is willing and competent in handling those things I’d expect a woman to handle, while I do the things a man is expected to handle.

In this day and age a lot of men and some women want too, do want the independent gender role thing, where both sides take equal responsibility on all the running of a household. I’m a traditional guy because I know female nature is to want to be led by a strong head of the household.

Dude already exposed she can’t cook so she’s ill-equipped
 

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1. If you cant afford to pay all of the household expenses, dont get married.

2. If she's not worth paying all of the household expenses, then don't get married.

3. What difference does it make? If she has a fulltime job making good money, that's your money too. Definately trust issues.

4. If you 100% expect your wife to split the expenses, that's not your wife, that's your roommate and eventually there will be issues over money. Dont get married.
 
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North Jersey but I miss Cali :sadcam:
There's a reason why she had to go find a RAMDOM STRANGER to marry her bum butt :lolbron:



When you see a women over 30 that ain't got no man that wants to marry them.....THATS A RED FLAG:mjgrin:


These damn dummies.....t
She wants to make her money and send his money....hoe said 70-30:dwillhuh: he pays 70% of all bills and she pays 30% but she's a strong independent women:heh:

That's broke nikka talk.

Unless both spouses are making like $10.00 an hour, a man should be financially secure enough to hold down his own house.

And the fact that you refer to money as hers and his basically negates getting married in the first place. There is no union of one and there damn sure isn't trust or loyalty.
 

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This conversation aside, this couple is completely boring and incompatible. I'd be fine if they stopped showing them altogether. I doubt even their parents watch the part of the show with them in it.
 

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So far, dude ends up agreeing to 60-40 even though the counselor lets them know she makes more than him. That’s abowt it so far lol

I was referring to what you said about her cooking. How did he expose that she doesn’t know how to cook?
 

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That's broke nikka talk.

Unless both spouses are making like $10.00 an hour, a man should be financially secure enough to hold down his own house.

And the fact that you refer to money as hers and his basically negates getting married in the first place. There is no union of one and there damn sure isn't trust or loyalty.


Did you watch the clip....she made it out to be that HE should pay most of the bills and SHE should pay the 'smaller bills' :stopitslime:



She's not looking at the marriage like WE should handle the bills together....you call it broke nikka talk and I call it smart nikka talk:ohhh:

Been married for 7 years to a lady that I've known and dated for 10+ years....my parents didn't raise a damn fool....but then again my wife and I both make good money, we don't like off of hourly wages :picard: best believe WE take care of things right down the middle.



'Happy wife happy life' saying has no place in my world....she works hard to make our home happy and I do the SAME DAMN THING :hubie:parents taught me that marriage is 50-50...got to have a balanced life.
 

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I pay all bills. Mortgage, cars, phone, electric, water, cable... You name it but I could still have about a nice chunk of change at the end of the month so I save it.

We do all the fun stuff with my wife's check like going to dinner and the movie and stuff.
Same here except its rent not mortgage. Gonna be awhile before I can own :mjcry:
 

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1. If you cant afford to pay all of the household expenses, dont get married.

2. If she's not worth paying all of the household expenses, then don't get married.

3. What difference does it make? If she has a fulltime job making good money, that's your money too. Definately trust issues.

4. If you 100% expect your wife to split the expenses, that's not your wife, that's your roommate and eventually there will be issues over money. Dont get married.
:ehh: rep
 

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she wants to get pregnant right away too

she's already big, but she has curves so she doesn't just look like a sloppy fat chick

but after the baby she probably will look sloppy. the dude probably thinking about that
 

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The majority of the women in the comment section are saying the man is supposed to provide, the bible said men are supposed to lead, he was probably raised by a single mother, 50/50 isn't reasonable, he's soft. If a man pays the a majority of the bills and the wife is still working a full time job, what does she do with her money? The man is supposed be stressed and broke, so the woman can relax and spend her money on anything she wants?
:jbhmm:

..and spend her money on vacation with the girls
 
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