No way, we got PHD brehs in the coli?! What did you doctor in breh?
Can you provide a photo of the degree?
Married brehs....come through
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No way, we got PHD brehs in the coli?! What did you doctor in breh?
Can you provide a photo of the degree?
Been married for going on near 10 years now. 
The most important tip that I can offer is that your wife/husband should be your best friend and your personalities should be compatible. Obviously you should also find her/him physically attractive, but you need to click first. Too many folks are so into looks forgetting that the looks are going to fade over time, and if that's all the relationship was based on
. Also, the wife is great because she has never tried to change me. All that shyt that I used to do before we got married, I still do. I can go out and come home whenever I feel like it. I can stay posting on the Coli all day and she gives no fukks. She never pulled that shyt about having to give up female friends. She knows where my folder of pron is and gives no fukks if I'm watching it.
Also, she never pressured me into marriage or gave me a timetable to get it done.
@ that thread talmbout "you need to be proposing within one year"
The most important tip that I can offer is that your wife/husband should be your best friend and your personalities should be compatible. Obviously you should also find her/him physically attractive, but you need to click first. Too many folks are so into looks forgetting that the looks are going to fade over time, and if that's all the relationship was based on. Also, the wife is great because she has never tried to change me. All that shyt that I used to do before we got married, I still do. I can go out and come home whenever I feel like it. I can stay posting on the Coli all day and she gives no fukks. She never pulled that shyt about having to give up female friends. She knows where my folder of pron is and gives no fukks if I'm watching it. Also, she never pressured me into marriage or gave me a timetable to get it done.
@ that thread talmbout "you need to be proposing within one year"
John Mayer
In your atmosphere
[Verse 1]
You know I, thug em, fukk em, love em, leave em
Cause I don't fukking need em
Take em out the hood, keep em looking good
But I don't fukking feed em
First time they fuss I'm breezing
Talking bout, what's the reasons
I'm a pimp in every sense of the word, bytch
Better trust and believe em
In the cut where I keep em
Til I need a nut, til I need to beat the guts
Then it's "beep beep" and I'm picking them up
Let em play with the dikk in the truck
Many chicks wanna put Jigga's fists in cuffs
Divorce him and split his bucks
Just because you got good head, I'mma break bread
So you can be living it up
shyt I, part with nothing, y'all be fronting
Me give my heart to a woman
Not for nothing, never happen
I'll be forever macking
nikka spitting dis shyt and dont even mean it
dats how you know dis rap shyt is fake
What's the point of getting married? Why complicate an already good relationship by adding a legal aspect to it? Just for a title?
If something happens in a relationship, it's easier to just stop seeing each other than to go through a divorce IMO
I really want to understand what the appeal of marriage is because where I'm at right now...it just seems like a hassle with little reward
If something happens in a relationship, it's easier to just stop seeing each other than to go through a divorce IMO
I really want to understand what the appeal of marriage is because where I'm at right now...it just seems like a hassle with little reward
factnotopinion
Pro
I just graduated this past August. It is in psychology. I don't make it a habit of posting pictures of things like that online. My dissertation might be available online in a few months, so you can look up the Phenomenological Study of Black Males in the Mental Health Profession.
"Marriage" is a beautiful thing but the ideal marriage has been distorted by too many people who aren't built for marriage getting married. The truth is people love to say half of all marriages fail completely forgetting that means half of all marriages SUCCEED. We only HEAR about the bad ones because those are the ones being projected... doesn't mean it's not an enjoyable experience. All of my friends who aren't happily married or are cheating are dudes I know wouldn't be able to stay with one girl anyone but instead of understanding that they would rather blame it on "Marriage"...
wrong, the ones that stick together include abuse, folks staying together for their kids / financial reasons, folks who forgive infidelity, folks who are getting cheated on and don't even know it, arranged marriages, sexless marriages etc. etc.
Being selfish and not finding common ground. If you can compromise and be fair (both partners then marriage can work). If you or your mate are selfish and about self marriage can't work.
shyt is like a team. Everyone has to do their part to make the team work. Everybody can't shoot the ball or catch all the passes. Someone has to do the dirty work some times and other times get the glory.
In sports terms it is better to be a Lebron than a Kobe in the game of marriage.
In the end marriage is what you and your spouse make of it. You put 10% in you gonna get 10% back. Same as school.....you study for 5 minutes on a finals exam you gonna flunk. Marriage is no different.
Oceanicpuppy
Superstar
Isn't is funny that most of the coli dudes who are in stable marriages don't down marriage yet the ones that have never married tell folks not to get married.
Mental Note for myself
Mental Note for myself
Oceanicpuppy
Superstar
I agree marriage isn't for everyone."Marriage" is a beautiful thing but the ideal marriage has been distorted by too many people who aren't built for marriage getting married. The truth is people love to say half of all marriages fail completely forgetting that means half of all marriages SUCCEED. We only HEAR about the bad ones because those are the ones being projected... doesn't mean it's not an enjoyable experience. All of my friends who aren't happily married or are cheating are dudes I know wouldn't be able to stay with one girl anyone but instead of understanding that they would rather blame it on "Marriage"...
#BlackExcellence
I'll peep your work on the Phenomenological Study of the Brehs in the MH Profession. Is it as depressing as I think it is though? The result of your research I mean.
u start twerking when u see the word marriage or something?
