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only thing good is we might be child free in our forties so we can relive our 2nd childhood once they grow up. and hell, we should have some money by then since we're older.

My thought is by the time I'm, say, 50, my boys will be grown and out of high school, then I can do WTF I want.

Plus, I was 29 when I got married, so I spent my entire 20's living the dream.
 
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Real talk:

Why get married when you can stay single, play with whatever random strange you wish, and not have an army of crumbsnatchers eat up your income?

What the difference between investing your money in your future "children" as opposed to blowing it on Asian hookers. Hookers are the biggest crumbsnatchers

A college-educated man with a decent income could easily retire in his forties, but once you have a family, you'll be working into your 60s to support them :sadbron:


Is college educated and has a clearance Im fine with seeing my children make it even if it requires me retiring at 60. Those are some of the sacrifices you make when you

1 Get married
2. Are responsible for bringing another life into this world

My child was planned and so will the second one
 

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My thought is by the time I'm, say, 50, my boys will be grown and out of high school, then I can do WTF I want.

Plus, I was 29 when I got married, so I spent my entire 20's living the dream.

yeah I was 26 myself, and I got a 9 year old and a 2 1/2 year old, so I'm hoping to be kickin it hard by my late 40's. hell I was kickin it up til the 2 year old was born, cuz my oldest was still in like 1st grade and self sufficient for the most part back then.
 

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Real talk:

Why get married when you can stay single, play with whatever random strange you wish, and not have an army of crumbsnatchers eat up your income?

A college-educated man with a decent income could easily retire in his forties, but once you have a family, you'll be working into your 60s to support them :sadbron:

I felt that way for a while, but that sh!t gets a little played out.

After I had my son, I wanted him to see a family, a house, going on family vactions and sh!t. I didn't want to be 40 with him coming over to my bachelor pad playing playstation and eating pizza all weekend
 

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1 year anniversary today brehs :jawalrus:

Sex games good, wifey down to try most new things, so I can't complain :ehh:
And it might not be the most energetic effort all the time, but I get to hit whenever I want. The head game did fall of a lil though, can't have it all I guess:yeshrug:


O ya, no kids yet either :win:
 

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What the difference between investing your money in your future "children" as opposed to blowing it on Asian hookers. Hookers are the biggest crumbsnatchers




Is college educated and has a clearance Im fine with seeing my children make it even if it requires me retiring at 60. Those are some of the sacrifices you make when you

1 Get married
2. Are responsible for bringing another life into this world

My child was planned and so will the second one

I would yield more utility from having sex with big-breasted Asian hookers versus spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on little RamDam who isn't even obligated to give me a return on my investment.
 

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:krs:...why you waiting though:huh:. Probably better now since your daughter is young and won't really remember but by age 7 she might take it hard...but hey do you :yeshrug:

Wanna wait til i get up some more money. Aint tryna leave and go back to ma dukes house. Plus i dont leave the guaranteed cat til i got some solid replacements.
 
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I would yield more utility from having sex with big-breasted Asian hookers versus spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on little RamDam who isn't even obligated to give me a return on my investment.

For you this works because you are inept when it comes to socializing with real women. Do you one day you will want to see a copy of you walking around even if the mother is swagless, flat booty asian who owns a chain of Chinese restaurants
 

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Six years in sept
Hate it cuz all the ass came outta hibernation when i said i do
Daughter turnin 5
Sex is good we still fukkin face to face. All the threesomes n orgies stopped when the vows came
I cheat a lot
Prolly divorce her in a yr or two

Going on a year. I have no complaints so far.

Truth.com at the bold. :smugfavre: It seems like the ring is a damn magnet breh!
 

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Going on 3 as well. 1 kid 18 months old aint to much to dislike since I take her for what she is and she does the same with me, we arent perfect. Sex has gotten better since we started communicating better instead of keeping the shyt in until on person or both people blew up. For me spicing it up consists of Mike Adriano type shyt and I doubt a black female will let me look in her ass married or not LOL

Hell yeah. It seems like we let ourselves get stuck in ruts that we don't get out of until resentment builds and we lay shyt on the table. I'm trying not to let it reach that point but I get lazy :flabbynsick:

Gotta keep that pipeline open because it's a harder hole to dig out of later. We've been goin at it like bunnies lately, if I let that cool off then it's on me. I gotta take responsibility for keeping that connection
 
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Hell yeah. It seems like we let ourselves get stuck in ruts that we don't get out of until resentment builds and we lay shyt on the table. I'm trying not to let it reach that point but I get lazy :flabbynsick:

Gotta keep that pipeline open because it's a harder hole to dig out of later. We've been goin at it like bunnies lately, if I let that cool off then it's on me. I gotta take responsibility for keeping that connection

We were in that rut for a while before we got married and started working on it after marriage counseling but once we had the kid we really got on our game since we arent trying to raise a little girl in a bitter black house.
 

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Six years in sept
Hate it cuz all the ass came outta hibernation when i said i do
Daughter turnin 5
Sex is good we still fukkin face to face. All the threesomes n orgies stopped when the vows came
I cheat a lot
Prolly divorce her in a yr or two

Were you and your girl (now wife) havin threesomes and orgies or you talkin about with other chicks?

I been married since aug 04. 2 kids. only thing that sucks is we got married after the 1st one was born, so we never got to live together without children officially.

Yeah I can see that. We're tryin to put off kids for a bit. I like being able to drink together all day or eat cereal for dinner at 2 a.m. and not have to worry about it. Not having to be an example or hold off on doing reckless stuff cuz of kids and whatnot...

Preach. Married 6 years next month, 5 year old and a 17 month old.

We fast forwarded our whole sheit, so we never got any 'married, no kids, lets go do stuff every weekend' type of shyt.

Do ya'll find ways to work around that and get your adventures in? My hats are off to people with kids who find a way cuz from the outside looking in it looks pretty damn hard.
 

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It will be a year for me July 30th. Everything is good for the most part. The money situation isn't as good as it should be but after I get done paying what I owe everything will on and popping again. I have a 8 year-old and my wife doesn't have any children biologically. But she is getting the itch though.
 
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