Married People: Do You Have Your Own Bank Account?

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I dont see how any responsible finanacial institution would allow something this to happen. There should be no way any party in a joint account can just one day up and try to withdraw large sums with out at least notifying the other party.

Seperate Accounts for me. Im just the type of nikka that wants NOBODY in my money bizness, wife (not married), brother, mother, kids, govt....nobody so it's nothing against her, it's just how I operate

Yaw married, yaw share an account, bank can't say shyt. Who's to say how much 1 person can have and the other can't.


And I know , I feel you , that's exactly the type of wave I'm on. Also if you're wifey and you're handling business then why you need my money, and why do I need yours? That sharing account shyt is lazy hoe/bytch nikka rhetoric

 

[twan83]

joint and separate

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

divorce rate is 50%..you gotta plan for the worst
not like the old days anymore

I wouldn't even argue with him tbh, he knows he's wrong.

 

[Rawtid]

If I was getting money before I got married, why would I need your help getting money once we got married and I'm not trying to have kids as a broke nikka let alone be married as a broke nikka, sounds like you nikkas be living life on some next shyt.

No one said you weren't getting money before marriage. But why wouldn't you get money WITH your wife once you got married? If your wife is working, it only makes sense for the both of you to try to come up together. Why would you try to support another person AND build wealth with your sole income if you don't have to? That makes the process longer than neccessary.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I wouldn't even argue with him tbh, he knows he's wrong.

I'm wrong yet you think married people shouldn't try to build together financially.

You think it makes you a real nikka to hide your purchases from your woman

And it makes me a simp to tell my wife "yes I'm buying that TV, fukk what you think"

Smart dumb nikkas

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

No one said you weren't getting money before marriage. But why wouldn't you get money WITH your wife once you got married? If your wife is working, it only makes sense for the both of you to try to come up together. Why would you try to support another person AND build wealth with your sole income if you don't have to? That makes the process longer than neccessary.

NOT IF IM NOT DEALING WITH NO BROKE bytch, WHICH IM NOT, THATS WHY !

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I wouldn't even argue with him tbh, he knows he's wrong.

sperate accounts makes the divorce process even more easier

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'm wrong yet you think married people shouldn't try to build together financially.

You think it makes you a real nikka to hide your purchases from your woman

And it makes me a simp to tell my wife "yes I'm buying that TV, fukk what you think"

Smart dumb nikkas

Yeah, hiding my purchases is what having a separate account means.


nikka shut up, you've said enough for today.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

sperate accounts makes the divorce process even more easier

No it doesn't. Things will be split up regardless of which account its in. Unless you are talking about hiding some money somewhere which would be illegal and would make things even more complicated. And once agin if you feel you need to hide money somewhere then why get married in the first place.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Yeah, hiding my purchases is what having a separate account means.


nikka shut up, you've said enough for today.

That's exactly what it means. You don't want to have to answer for your own purchases. You want to be free to do what you please with your money. And if you think the only way to achieve this is through seperate accounts then you are the simp

 

[Steve Piffler]

Yeah, hiding my purchases is what having a separate account means.


nikka shut up, you've said enough for today.

right

 

[MeachTheMonster]

right

Y'all can try to deny it all y'all want but the only reason to have seperate accounts is for the other person not to see what you are buying. You can claim that it's not cause your hiding something. But there is literaly no other reason to have your own account.

 

[Steve Piffler]

Y'all can try to deny it all y'all want but the only reason to have seperate accounts is for the other person not to see what you are buying. You can claim that it's not cause your hiding something. But there is literaly no other reason to have your own account.

ok breh. you're right.

does that make you feel better?

 

[BezO]

Marriage imminent

joint savings
joint checking (for bills & food)
separate checking (for personal spending)

Never thought of the separate spending accounts as hiding purchases. We do it so that we(read I) don't have to keep track of whose money is whose.

 

[Rawtid]

Y'all can try to deny it all y'all want but the only reason to have seperate accounts is for the other person not to see what you are buying. You can claim that it's not cause your hiding something. But there is literaly no other reason to have your own account.

Don't tell them anything.

LMMFAO "I don't like anyone in my business". Yet you're giving some woman your last name, living with her and possibly having children with her but don't be in my financial business while you're doing all that.