Marrying v.s. Impregnating

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who told you a kid is an 18+ year commitment? you can get a bytch pregnant and literally never see her again or the b*stard in her belly

marriage you got a crazy bytch around 24/7 indefinitely as you find out all the disgusting truths about her as a person


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which is why i can't respect someone as a man if he decides to go raw/not pull out based on nothing but the woman's looks

nevermind what kind of mother she'd be

nevermind what kind of father he'd be
 
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Use condoms

Of course condoms help, but it makes no sense that the #GMB crew condemn marriage but not impregnating women you are not committed to.
These dudes have a illogical fear of women taking them to the cleaners but no fear having to raise a child with a woman who may or may not be a good mother to his children.
No breh has explained to me how you can be #GMB but okay with impregnating a woman you are not committed to and/or have no interest in committing to. Perhaps because they know their argument makes no sense. :sas1:
 

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Potentially splitting half, or more, of everything you earned to someone who is grown and has no attachment to you after a divorce is the same as raising your own seed :what:

Less think about how dumb that shyt sounds for a second. Take care of my own flesh and blood for a lot less money, hassle, and head ache vs taking care of some lousy broad that can take care of herself:patrice:
 

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Potentially splitting half, or more, of everything you earned to someone who is grown and has no attachment to you after a divorce is the same as raising your own seed :what:

Less think about how dumb that shyt sounds for a second. Take care of my own flesh and blood for a lot less money, hassle, and head ache vs taking care of some lousy broad that can take care of herself:patrice:

Most couples leave with what they came with in an divorce. :comeon: The only time men wind up having to give half or pay alimony is if he is a 7 figures+ with no prenup.
You will not be taking care of your own flesh in blood by yourself unless you file for sole custody and most men don't do that. So there is no less hassle, money or headache.
 

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Most couples leave with what they came with in an divorce. :comeon: The only time men wind up having to give half or pay alimony is if he is a 7 figures+ with no prenup.
You will not be taking care of your own flesh in blood by yourself unless you file for sole custody and most men don't do that. So there is no less hassle, money or headache.

You don't know what your talking about. There was a cac at my job who was going through a divorce and his soon to be ex wife got the house and spousal support so no, there isn't any income threshold on that.

I never said all by myself, once you have a kid you and the person you had it with have to find some way to work out raising that kid in the best way possible without letting whatever you and that person had get in the way with that.

Commitment to a child >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Comittment to any woman
 

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Most couples leave with what they came with in an divorce. :comeon: The only time men wind up having to give half or pay alimony is if he is a 7 figures+ with no prenup.
You will not be taking care of your own flesh in blood by yourself unless you file for sole custody and most men don't do that. So there is no less hassle, money or headache.

the average coli poster is a dummy..

bum ass 8hr nikka worrying bout losing half in a divorce...

Most nikkas talking bout knocking up hoes dont know what it feels like to pay child support to a ho another man is fukking

They think "oh she is fine...if i knock her up..she will be mine forever"

Plenty of fine hoes got babies with ugly,broke nikkas they dont give 2 fukks bout

Pay your child support or go to jail where u would probably get turned out
 

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You don't know what your talking about. There was a cac at my job who was going through a divorce and his soon to be ex wife got the house and spousal support so no, there isn't any income threshold on that.

I never said all by myself, once you have a kid you and the person you had it with have to find some way to work out raising that kid in the best way possible without letting whatever you and that person had get in the way with that.

Commitment to a child >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Comittment to any woman

The woman will still be in your life though through the child. Like I said, you can always get a divorce from your spouse if you realize things are not working out, you cannot (if you have a sense of moral obligation) divorce a child and untie yourself from the woman.
 
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Potentially splitting half, or more, of everything you earned to someone who is grown and has no attachment to you after a divorce is the same as raising your own seed :what:

Less think about how dumb that shyt sounds for a second. Take care of my own flesh and blood for a lot less money, hassle, and head ache vs taking care of some lousy broad that can take care of herself:patrice:

thats why you get a prenup, you can prevent having to give the woman anything after a divorce. and a woman you didnt marry may make it hard for you to see the child and a ton of other drama.
 

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The woman will still be in your life though through the child. Like I said, you can always get a divorce from your spouse if you realize things are not working out, you cannot (if you have a sense of moral obligation) divorce a child and untie yourself from the woman.

Okay youre saying that like a the child would be a bad thing to be committed to though? Its your kid so youre still winning if you don't have kids with multiple women

Now if a person is just popping babies into random / multiple women then hell naw.


thats why you get a prenup, you can prevent having to give the woman anything after a divorce. and a woman you didnt marry may make it hard for you to see the child and a ton of other drama.

Any lawyer worth his weight can deal with a prenup and that doesn't apply to anything acquired during the marriage. So if youre older and already established then cool since you already earned the majority of the money you already earned, if youre younger and working to get established then youre gonna lose regardless
 

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Okay youre saying that like a the child would be a bad thing to be committed to though? Its your kid so youre still winning if you don't have kids with multiple women

Now if a person is just popping babies into random / multiple women then hell naw.




Any lawyer worth his weight can deal with a prenup and that doesn't apply to anything acquired during the marriage. So if youre older and already established then cool since you already earned the majority of the money you already earned, if youre younger and working to get established then youre gonna lose regardless

No I'm saying the #GMB movement on the coli is pointless if the same brehs have no problem with impregnating women they are not committed to.
Let's say you met a woman that looks like Amber Rose or whatever women is your ideal type physically. You all have been seeing each other for 3 months and decide to start going raw or have been going raw since day one, and she winds up pregnant. You now have to raise a child with a woman you are not even sure you want to be in a long term relationship.
If you impregnate your wife you have already determined that she would be a good woman to build a life with. The same cannot be said about a woman you have only been seeing a short while.
 
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