Mary J Blige On Not Having Kids

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Apart from selfish reasons, you're doing your kids no favors putting them into a world facing ecoligical collapse within their lifetime. We are already witnessing prolonged draughts, increasing conflicts and political instability. When they're grown up, it's going to be Mad Max Fury Road:francis:
 

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Mary was addicted to coke and alcohol for most of her child bearing years...along with being in showbusines and dealing with depression and domestic violence and child molestation.

She made the right decision not to get pregnant while on drugs...

Also, if she would have had a child early on it might have forced her to clean up.

We probably wouldn't have had the archetypal Mary heartbreak and love songs if she had a child and forced herself to avoid self harm and shytty relationships.

Interesting point. This can apply to many other artists. Beyonce with a crackhead mom = Keyshia Cole.

Pac, Richard Pryor, MJB.....all possibly would have displayed a different brand of art if they didn't experience some suffering in their early years.
 

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Bmore stand up!
Not everyone is meant to have kids…. But for a woman to NEVER want children?? Kinda screams, “I’m a selfish bytch who ain’t shyt and I don’t have much love in my heart”

From a woman’s first period, her body is literally wiring itself to prepare for child birth… the fact that women are the ones who bare children is like 80% of the reason why us as men, society, culture and even religion respect and cherish women the way that we do…. Because they are the givers of life…..most women from a young age often fantasize about being a mother and loving something that they created more than life itself……Idk… just my 2 cents….

On the flip side, I guess I do give her props for living in her truth and not bringing kids in this world just so she can fail them…. There’s some ain’t-shyt mothers out there that probably should have followed suit…..
 
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