Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Dating apps helped influence the current mindsets of people dating, I would agree on that

But social media in general imo

People who let a dating app influence them are low IQ.

I knew this was Scott Galloway before I clicked the thread. He's on point about this. And he's right about young lonely men being the most dangerous people. Look at the general profile of mass shooters or Proud Boys.


It's the algorithms predeciding who meets who. Men just swipe on anything and this skews it in women's favor. And women in general put more thought into meeting on an app then men, so a large swath of men aren't getting the results they would get through normal interaction.

Not caping. Just explaining.

Any man who doesn't understand how dating apps work deserves to be a lonely incel. If I'm 5'2 and ugly, why would I make a dating profile? It's MUCH better to approach in person. But dudes too scary to do that, so they deserve being lonely.

 

[ViShawn]

the diary of a CEO is about online dating and masculinity

podcast gay af

It's a bunch of subjects. There was a toxicologist that was on a few months ago that talked about micro plastics and toxins and how it affects pregnancies in women like her. If I check a podcast it's something along the breadth of DOAC due to its insightful topics

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Correct. Unfortunately masculinity has been beaten in the head for the past 60 years so men collectively are to weak to exert their rightful place and respect in society

Great contribution to the thread mouth breather

Your contribution was basically "I'm a fukking loser who bases his whole identity on why I can't get a bytch"

and you live in fukking Florida how incompetent are you, as a man, you can't get a bytch in a place EVERY WOMAN with a pulse hits from time to time.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Correct. Unfortunately masculinity has been beaten in the head for the past 60 years so men collectively are to weak to exert their rightful place and respect in society

Your masculinity is only beaten if you allow it.

This is why bad boys/sociopaths/politicians always win. Because they're toxic as shyt and don't give a fukk. They have a backbone and spine and stick up for their beliefs even if it's wrong.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

A lot of men don't have a circle of friends that they speak to regularly and aren't going out and doing things because they're broke.

How are you going to be mad that a woman doesn't want you if you live with 2 roommates and can't find a full time job that gives you enough disposable income and time that you can go out to restaurants, book flights, go to concerts etc.

If you're on a dating app and a woman who is choosing can choose between a man who's on a path to home ownership or currently owns a home vs a man who has no friends, can't afford to travel, doesn't go out and spend money, has an outdated and unreliable car and can't afford gas money etc.

People talk about men being incels like there isn't an economic component around it that needs to be addressed. Women like financial security. They need to know if they lose their job their man can cover expenses. A grower number of men aren't able to be that kind of man anymore.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

People who let a dating app influence them are low IQ.



Any man who doesn't understand how dating apps work deserves to be a lonely incel. If I'm 5'2 and ugly, why would I make a dating profile? It's MUCH better to approach in person. But dudes too scary to do that, so they deserve being lonely.

So most of america then?

 

[Wiseborn]

This topic interests me and I’ll add on later.

The Diary of a CEO and Scott Galloway has clips for people who want to see shorter videos.

He’s an easy 2x Playback speed listen

 

[FTBS]

This is a long listen but its an interesting conversation.

Young boys are not getting the support they need (no matter the race) en masse. Education, childrearing, dating, socially, its time to put more resources back into boys. Especially because at the end of the day, women want successful, strong masculine men to partner with.

I've heard these talking points in other places before too , godfather was spot on about a good bit

I started it yesterday. I am here for the convo and the action that we as men need to take.

I gotta push back on the bolded. In know too many dudes lacking in one or more of those categories that have women all over them. If we are being real most people dont even understand what actual masculinity or strength is.

The thing is you cant seperate the genders of you want society to function well. What girls do and dont do impacts boys and vice versa. What good is raising heatlhy strong masculine men if women are choosing weak, lazy, deadbeat addicts to breed with? What good is encouraging girls to go get it if you allow boys to be weak, lazy, deadbeat addicts?

 

[ViShawn]

BTW I think men need to do more but I also dislike the dismissiveness of men's issues coming from other men. So many boys in my family failed to launch for one reason or another and I can see how it's affecting other interpersonal relationships. Hell, I could have been one of them but I wanted better for myself but I realize not everyone has the same resolve, luck, and people around them to excel.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

So most of america then?

I guess so if you consider most of America dumb.

I mean is an individual particularly intelligent if they let an app or social media influence their dating choices?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I guess so if you consider most of America dumb.

So most of america then?

And you are asking me?

Most of America IS stupid af… or at least a high percentage. You said if the let dating apps influence their behaviors, then they are stupid right?

So

This is obviously no longer a country that values education. On top of that, dating apps (social media in general imo)have influenced the female population to over value themselves and their worth, no?

Has it not easily influenced a generation of male pump fakers, scammers, and people who view online significance more important than real life significance just to temporarily obtain these kind of women… no?

 

[Jazzy B.]

What is an “incel” in 2025?


Because y’all call anyone who views
RP/manosphere content “incels” but when the likes of Shannon Sharpe, SAS and rappers say exactly the same thing y’all suddenly aint calling anyone “incels”

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

And you are asking me?

Most of America IS stupid af… or at least a high percentage. You said if the let dating apps influence their behaviors, then they are stupid right?

So

This is obviously no longer a country that values education. On top of that, dating apps (social media in general imo)have influenced the female population to over value themselves and their worth, no?

Has it not easily influenced a generation of male pump fakers, scammers, and people who view online significance more important than real life significance just to temporarily obtain these kind of women… no?

At the end of the day,

The intelligent men and women will find each other and form healthy loving families. For everybody else? Tough luck.


It's like a 5'6 man complaining how no woman wants them, instead of having the intelligence to realize not every woman cares about height and he should just go out and keep shooting.

 

[Hey_zeus]

There's no women on these apps anymore. That bubble burst in the late 10s.

 

[The ADD]

This should be fun