Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

[Mordith]

America and the West don't put value on being a man. There's no respect in it from society. Dating apps don't change that

I would have never guessed that you were a dry dikk incel....

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Men create their own value.

What does this even mean?

 

[Wild self]

The coli: Women love bad boy convicts

Also the coli: Women don't date broke men

Pac in Business Suits

Dating Maino with a lotto ticket

DATING Future with a Pastor Robe

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

. If we are being real most people dont even understand what actual masculinity or strength is.

Facts. And this includes most dudes posting in this thread

 

[Wild self]

Ya'll have a million excuses for what's so simple. The system that encouraged male female relationships, particularly traditional family, is breaking down.

The way people relationship is completely out of alignment with our natural instincts. As the system falls, people start aligning themselves with nature again.

In nature, weak men do not get to breed.

Why do you think these republicans are doing all this to try to stop women from having abortions and trying to target programs that help women? It's the system trying to maintain itself.

"Weak" ?

Just cause some average simp aint paying your yearly deformed butt surgeries, don't make a man "weak" LMAO

Its the landlords and the economy pricing out the non wealthy people.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Blame the economy for that. How many young adults under 35 can afford a home or a decent 1 bedroom apartment with hyperinflation of pricing? Who can afford $2k a month rent?

No other generation went though a economic or housing crisis like this one.

I agree. That's why I always want to know what the life context is for men who complain about not getting women. Generally getting a text back is the least of a man's problems when he can't even afford to host a kickback at his crib or actually *go* anywhere if he has paid time off.

If you don't have a path towards some level of sustainable financial security and health, then that's something you can be spending mental energy trying to resolve instead of posting in the comments sections on dating videos and complaining to anonymous strangers who aren't obligated to listen and will likely roast you and turn you into a meme for entertainment.

I think if America had a federal jobs program and universal healthcare with access to mental health services, a lot of these guys would be making some money, improving their social skills and unpacking their emotional pain then figuring out ways to sublimate it and improve as people.

What I want to see is people being in good health, having hobbies they can enjoy with others, building solid social circles, seeing the world and not spending hours a day online fixated on how others are doing them wrong.

 

[feelosofer]

No. Dating apps are a symptom. It's simple put money back in men's pockets and they will be more encouraged to go out and date. The average house is 480k and rising. The average 1 bedroom rent is 1800. Who can afford that?

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

That 20/80 rule showed men that what they have doesn't trump physical attraction when it's all said and done.

Men learned women are just as shallow. Their egos are decimated

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

In nature, weak men do not get to breed.

We live in form of captivity, not nature. Also, what makes a man a”weak” man?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Yeah

I've heard that too

and it's bullshyt

Yeah’s it’s bullshyt and probably based off of dating app data….which will be skewed to a huge degree based on numerous factors…. It in real life, average joe cats are getting laid.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

No. Dating apps are a symptom. It's simple put money back in men's pockets and they will be more encouraged to go out and date. The average house is 480k and rising. The average 1 bedroom rent is 1800. Who can afford that?

What if I told you know dudes who work at Walmart and warehouses still get p*ssy?

What about all the single mothers who got pregnant by dead beats?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

That 20/80 rule showed men that what they have doesn't trump physical attraction when it's all said and done.

Men learned women are just as shallow. Their egos are decimated

Ain't no 20/80. I see ugly fat dudes with a woman on their arm everywhere I go.


Dudes need to get in where they fit in.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

For any real change to occur, we have to:

1. Stop putting women on a pedestal.

2. Acknowledge that gender roles are a thing. If you are going to advocate for a more traditional version of masculinity complete with all the responsibilities of a man then you are going to have to accept traditional gender roles and with that, the traditional responsibilities of a woman. Anything outside of that, you have no room to complain.

Does that include going 50/50?

 

[Afro]

What does this even mean?

Bootstraps but applied to dating advice

Society has to still allow the majority to play and right now, it does not.

Not going to read the rest of the thread either because I know MFers gonna downplay the issue as usual.

 

[Afro]

Ain't no 20/80. I see ugly fat dudes with a woman on their arm everywhere I go.


Dudes need to get in where they fit in.

Her? Lips didn't even move