It’s not that she was unworthy of love, she’s unworthy of her services
She probably could tell that her lack of compromising wasn’t going to get her any matches and would probably hinder her services to her other clients.
The “woo” shyt (another reddit word) or esoteric beliefs probably clashes with then men in her clientele. Believe it or not, a lot of older successful/business minded white men are into that kinda shyt… Especially meditating
The fact she’s been in therapy for 10 years with probably no sign of improvement (aka not in there to better herself mentally, probably just to complain about problems and have someone paid to listen) AND she’s 38/single with zero desire to make herself desirable can be seen just in the fact that she made a 4 minute vid complaining and gaslighting (if that how it’s used)