Mature Discussion: Clitoral orgasm vs. Vaginal Orgasm

[awkwardblackgirl]

It has nothing to do with men and more with your mental mindset.

I disagree. I'm actually going to segue off the post Klarifye just made. One thing that really throws me off when I'm having sex is talking about how to make me cum while we're having sex. If you're constantly changing positions and doing all these acrobatic moves, there's no chance for there to be that constant stimulation I need to cum. It also takes away from me being able to relax when I feel under pressure to orgasm. So, yes in a way it's mental but at the same time it does have something to do with men who don't pay attention and are not mindful.

 

[Harry Sax]

I don't think my girl can have clitoral orgasms.

i can prove u wrong

 

[Coco Loco]

Notice you said you know what you like and you know how to get there. If a man is not giving you what you like you will let him know? A lot of women won't do this.

Yes sir, lol. Sex is for both of us not just him. He can't be the only one getting rocks off.

Another thing I don't do or understand is faking an orgasm. I've never faked an orgasm and I never will.

 

[Will Ross]

I disagree. I'm actually going to segue off the post Klarifye just made. One thing that really throws me off when I'm having sex is talking about how to make me cum while we're having sex. If you're constantly changing positions and doing all these acrobatic moves, there's no chance for there to be that constant stimulation I need to cum. It also takes away from me being able to relax when I feel under pressure to orgasm. So, yes in a way it's mental but at the same time it does have something to do with men who don't pay attention and are not mindful.

Do you tell the men you have sex with this? or do you think they are just going to know?

 

[DarlingNikki]

It has nothing to do with the man and more to do with the woman's mental mindset. when a woman gets help with whatever issue she has she enjoys sex more.

Or maybe it has more to do with the man not doing what she needs physically for her.

I know when I'm having sex, he's gonna know what I don't like that he's doing, if he doesn't fix it I'm done. If he not concerned with making me cum I'm damn sure not letting him.

 

[Will Ross]

Yes sir, lol. Sex is for both of us not just him. He can't be the only one getting rocks off.

Another thing I don't do or understand is faking an orgasm. I've never faked an orgasm and I never will.

A lot of women don't have that mindset.

 

[Rawtid]

Ask yourself how you can have one with a toy but not a man. it your mental mindset not the man.

dikks don't vibrate or come with various speeds.

 

[Robert California]

For the bruhs that have made their chicks have vaginal orgasms, can you feel it on the inside? And if so, what does it feel like?

Really depends on the female...i knew one girl who's vagina muscles would squeeze tightly while she was cumming. like she was doing kegel exercises or something, but rapidly. i was always like when she'd cum.

 

[Petty Crocker]

After I had my first clitoral orgasm, I never looked back

When I get my toys I only buy clitoral stimulators..In my opinion, the clitoral orgasm has an intensity that in unmatched by a vaginal one..there is a certain peak that a clitoral orgasm reaches that a vaginal one cannot..It like finding another room in the p*ssy.

 

[Will Ross]

dikks don't vibrate or come with various speeds.

and titties should not be flabby

 

[Rawtid]

After I had my first clitoral orgasm, I never looked back

When I get my toys I only buy clitoral stimulators..In my opinion, the clitoral orgasm has an intensity that in unmatched by a vaginal one..there is a certain peak that a clitoral orgasm reaches that a vaginal one cannot..It like finding another room in the p*ssy.

If you're going to masturbate, use your fingers. If you can get yourself off with your fingers, then so can your dude. If you rely upon toys then any dude you have sex with is going to run into a disadvantage because he doesn't vibrate.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Do you tell the men you have sex with this? or do you think they are just going to know?

I tell them, but not while we're doing it 'cause like I said, it throws me off. I'm not hung up on not having an orgasm while I have sex because the whole experience is enjoyable enough. But knowing that they are still disgruntled about it also is a distraction. Idk, I'll keep working on it. I've come really close a few times.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

well my husband rubs my clit as we are fuccing, it makes for a more powerful orgasm.

 

[Rawtid]

and titties should not be flabby

But sometimes they are.

That really doesn't have anything to do with being able to orgasm using a toy. That's not a mental thing.

 

[Petty Crocker]

If you're going to masturbate, use your fingers. If you can get yourself off with your fingers, then so can your dude. If you rely upon toys then any dude you have sex with is going to run into a disadvantage because he doesn't vibrate.

Im lazy girl...lol...MY fingers are wack..But I can come from a dude using his fingers if he does it right.. I dont see dude running into a disadvantage, if the dikk is right, then Im right...lol