But sometimes they are.
That really doesn't have anything to do with being able to orgasm using a toy. That's not a mental thing.
if a woman can only get off with a toy and not a real man she has a mental issue. Trying to blame it on men is crazy
But sometimes they are.
That really doesn't have anything to do with being able to orgasm using a toy. That's not a mental thing.
If you're going to masturbate, use your fingers. If you can get yourself off with your fingers, then so can your dude. If you rely upon toys then any dude you have sex with is going to run into a disadvantage because he doesn't vibrate.
While we're on the topic of clit-rubbing, I am never sure how hard to rub it? Ladies, hard or soft or does it depend?
If you've ever had your pulse taken at the doctor, that's a good pressure (to me). Too hard and it's just uncomfortable. Too soft and it's like "son, have a seat". I also find that using your thumb to rub the clit while putting your index and middle finger into the vagina feels really nice.

While we're on the topic of clit-rubbing, I am never sure how hard to rub it? Ladies, hard or soft or does it depend?
if a woman can only get off with a toy and not a real man she has a mental issue. Trying to blame it on men is crazy
Lol I disagree...the orgasms are different and I hate fingers in me...I seldom if ever use dildos ...a man can rub your clit while he's having sex with you....or you can use a vibrator during sex...
Or maybe it has more to do with the man not doing what she needs physically for her.
I know when I'm having sex, he's gonna know what I don't like that he's doing, if he doesn't fix it I'm done. If he not concerned with making me cum I'm damn sure not letting him.

Do you tell them what to do to fix it![]()
For the bruhs that have made their chicks have vaginal orgasms, can you feel it on the inside? And if so, what does it feel like?![]()

Lol. Absolutely. That's the only way he'd know..

She'll get that work though.
aint hitting her spots u gotta
stroke game no homo, i always make my women cumIf a dikk vibrated and had adjustable speeds, men would be great. It doesn't take any mental effort (imo) to cum with a vibrator. I can put a vibrator on my clit during an episode of House Hunters and get off with no issue. If I were to try that with my fingers, then I just couldn't do it.
I do agree with you that mentally you have to be there in order for sex to good.
