Mature Discussion: Clitoral orgasm vs. Vaginal Orgasm

[Guess Who]

Man would y'all nikkas stop arguing so a nikka like me can take notes? Damn!

 

[Kings County]

I mean I've never had a orgasm via a male, I have gotten one from watching porn once. Life changing.

once? imma have to fly to canada and get u right that just aint right

 

[Melza]

very informative thread.

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

GOAT humble brag post

at username though "sweatoutweaves"

 

[Kings County]

Depends on my mood.

Sometimes I want a bomb ass explosive clitoral orgasm and then take my ass to sleep.

Other times I want to be penetrated and have vaginal orgasms that are less powerful but more frequent yet euphoric.

Just depends

i thought they were the same thing

 

[Reality]

so ladies, no homo, but what makes a good stroke game? im trying to figure out if there's something consistent because the only thing ive noticed is universal across girls is the g-spot stimulation in doggy-style being a plus.

specific questions:

fast or slow? does it depend on the position?
do you appreciate deep strokes?
do you like it when we guide your torso during sex? or would you rather be in control?
what angle feels best in missionary?

*takes out note pad*

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

i thought they were the same thing

naw son. They feel completely different.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

so ladies, no homo, but what makes a good stroke game? im trying to figure out if there's something consistent because the only thing ive noticed is universal across girls is the g-spot stimulation in doggy-style being a plus.

specific questions:

fast or slow? does it depend on the position?
do you appreciate deep strokes?
do you like it when we guide your torso during sex? or would you rather be in control?
what angle feels best in missionary?

*takes out note pad*

See, it varies based upon the female since we all do not like the same stuff. You really have to figure out what the chick likes and gets off on and just focus on that. There is no "universal" way to fukcin or making a girl cum.

 

[DemureNatural]

But you do use,toys though right? Depending on how aroused a woman is she can cum very easily...and a man can create a humming sensation with his mouth that is similar to a vibrator...a,woman has the pleasure of cumming multiple ways. Just because one way produces more pleasure doesn't mean she won't be able to enjoy any other way...

I absolutely HATE that damn humming! LOL! I didn't know WTF he was doing, or why but I asked him to stop.
It throws me off mentally...such an unnecessary distraction! We can just get my vibrator!

 

[opulence]

I absolutely HATE that damn humming! LOL! I didn't know WTF he was doing, or why but I asked him to stop.
It throws me off mentally...such an unnecessary distraction! We can just get my vibrator!

Lmao...well have him flicker his tongue across your clit fast...when I do this to my mans head with my tongue ring he likes it..and I know I love it it

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I can do vaginal or the button thingy



And a nikka aint even hung like that

 

[Kings County]

naw son. They feel completely different.

can i come practice on u

 

[Why-Fi]

piggy-backing off the "sex is mental" movement, women have the strongest orgasms when they are comfortable...

every dude here can agree sex is great when you get an awesome response and somehow know that you are killing it. women are the same way...stop holding back brehs and watch the magic happen

 

[devizelle]

so ladies, no homo, but what makes a good stroke game? im trying to figure out if there's something consistent because the only thing ive noticed is universal across girls is the g-spot stimulation in doggy-style being a plus.

specific questions:

fast or slow? does it depend on the position?
do you appreciate deep strokes?
do you like it when we guide your torso during sex? or would you rather be in control?
what angle feels best in missionary?

*takes out note pad*

(1) I like it slow unless I'm drunk. It does depend on the position though.
(2) Of course.
(3) Hmm. If I'm trying to get off quickly then I wanna be in control (aka on top), otherwise I'm perfectly good being "guided" lol.
(4) Lol idk how to answer this, also I kind of hate missionary.

piggy-backing off the "sex is mental" movement, women have the strongest orgasms when they are comfortable...

every dude here can agree sex is great when you get an awesome response and somehow know that you are killing it. women are the same way...stop holding back brehs and watch the magic happen

This is so true. Just pay attention to her body movements and the sounds she makes!

 

[Liu Kang]

But on some real shyt I can cum from watching porn but not from p*ssy. Can I blame that on the woman?

Blame it on you unfortunately.
Getting use to masturbation to reach orgasm make your brain used to hand stimulation to do so. Therefore when your dikk is surrounded by p*ssy, it doesn't "feel right" in your brain to reach orgasm : some may experienced difficulties (or not depending on the frequence of masturbation comparing to intercourse) to have an orgasm but others sometimes won't be able to do so, which seems to be your case.

I strongly recommend you that PMO challenge (breaking the "Porn > Masturbation > Orgasm" cycle) to reeducate your brain.
I was never a porn addict myself (maybe 2 to 3 times a week when I was single) but because that period was long, when I was in a relation again, I felt like I couldn't handle the vaginal stimulation... Therefore I was cumming too fast or couldn't cum at all sometimes .
It got better after a couple of weeks, but you have to reeducate yourself.

You can also learn to understand your pleasure by understanding the different levels that lead to orgasm from the basic arousal to the point of no-return. To do so, you should learn to recognize the feelings, emotions or physical manifestations that are related to said levels.
Here's a good ebook (it's a PDF) : http://unix.rulez.org/~calver/stuff/(ebook_-_PDF)_How_to_Make_Love_All_Night_(and_Drive_a_Woman_Wild).pdf

It's an ebook about multi-orgasm for men and arousal control, but it's not necessarely what you want to learn.
Read from page 37 for the explanations related to pleasure levels, and if you're in a relation, do the exercises with your partner so you can avoid stimulate yourself with your hand.
:tisalute:



Getting back on the topic...
To the females in here, my girl say that she can't reach to clitoral orgasm (therefore never experienced one)... is it because she definetely can't or is it because she was never properly stimulated there