Maybe I'm the problem?

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You ever sat back and thought about what others say about you? Like I get constantly criticized and insulted for just being me. Like I know we have to validate ourselves and all that shyt but the consistency of it gets to me. TBH I have no idea what I do or did. like if im too nice and respectful then i'm soft and docile. if im aggressive and ignorant then im crazy lol. Like I can't win with people. The craziest shyt to me is the lack of loyalty others have, you could do a lot for people when ever they need it, but once they on they feet they act brand new. I'm honestly at the point when I'm gonna stop caring. Cause the funny thing is everybody who talks down I've helped and went out of my way for ...

I think I'm done sparring feelings cause they don't spare mine. But if I every slighty react to my unhappiness then I become the problem lol. When I was the when beneath their wings when they needed me

I ain't doing shyt for a soul ever again

Been listening to Taylor Swift again???
 

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I’ve thought of that.

One that trips me out is if I would be friends with myself… I don’t think I would :francis:
 

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You ever sat back and thought about what others say about you? Like I get constantly criticized and insulted for just being me. Like I know we have to validate ourselves and all that shyt but the consistency of it gets to me. TBH I have no idea what I do or did. like if im too nice and respectful then i'm soft and docile. if im aggressive and ignorant then im crazy lol. Like I can't win with people. The craziest shyt to me is the lack of loyalty others have, you could do a lot for people when ever they need it, but once they on they feet they act brand new. I'm honestly at the point when I'm gonna stop caring. Cause the funny thing is everybody who talks down I've helped and went out of my way for ...

I think I'm done sparring feelings cause they don't spare mine. But if I every slighty react to my unhappiness then I become the problem lol. When I was the when beneath their wings when they needed me

I ain't doing shyt for a soul ever again

Get $$$ first and foremost.

Folks can treat you however, tell you whatever to do, whatever to you because they know you aren’t going anywhere — even if that “anywhere” is out of their line of sight.

Level up and so will your options along with he quality of people you’re around. You’re within your right to make adjustments with who you are — no one is flawless.

But when your resources start to put separation between you and the pack then you can start evaluating if it’s “you”
 
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Been listening to Taylor Swift again???
Ol "im the problem its me" head ass 🤣

get that dirt off your shoulders breh and dont answer to anyone except yourself. You can be responsible for others your whole life and become a villian off of one bad interaction. just examine yourself and fix what YOU want to fix.

if any of my exes wanna talk tough they're doing it behind closed doors. :yeshrug:
 

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@Prynce If you really feel like you may be the problem, it may be time for some serious introspection. I have definitely been there and the problem was definitely me.



Not being facetious at all, and I also wasn’t her biggest fan, but Taylor Swift hit it on the head with this song. It perfectly describes someone who doesn’t have self-awareness and is the problem in all of their relationships.

I have this thing where I get older but just never wiser
Midnights become my afternoons
When my depression works the graveyard shift
All of the people I've ghosted stand there in the room

I should not be left to my own devices
They come with prices and vices
I end up in crisis (tale as old as time)
I wake up screaming from dreaming
One day I'll watch as you're leaving
'Cause you got tired of my scheming

(For the last time)
It's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me
At tea time, everybody agrees
I'll stare directly at the sun but never in the mirror
It must be exhausting always rooting for the anti-hero

Sometimes I feel like everybody is a sexy baby
And I'm a monster on the hill
Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city
Pierced through the heart, but never killed

Did you hear my covert narcissism I disguise as altruism
Like some kind of congressman? (Tale as old as time)

I wake up screaming from dreaming
One day I'll watch as you're leaving
And life will lose all its meaning
(For the last time)
 

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You ever sat back and thought about what others say about you? Like I get constantly criticized and insulted for just being me. Like I know we have to validate ourselves and all that shyt but the consistency of it gets to me. TBH I have no idea what I do or did. like if im too nice and respectful then i'm soft and docile. if im aggressive and ignorant then im crazy lol. Like I can't win with people. The craziest shyt to me is the lack of loyalty others have, you could do a lot for people when ever they need it, but once they on they feet they act brand new. I'm honestly at the point when I'm gonna stop caring. Cause the funny thing is everybody who talks down I've helped and went out of my way for ...

I think I'm done sparring feelings cause they don't spare mine. But if I every slighty react to my unhappiness then I become the problem lol. When I was the when beneath their wings when they needed me

I ain't doing shyt for a soul ever again
you kind of sound like me
:jbhmm:

ive been snaked and taken for granted many times. nikkas and bytches hate or laugh but proceed to steal the swag or still wanna know what im doing once i ghost
:mjlol:
 

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you kind of sound like me
:jbhmm:

ive been snaked and taken for granted many times. nikkas and bytches hate or laugh but proceed to steal the swag or still wanna know what im doing once i ghost
:mjlol:
mannnnnn.... the way people be hating you while you helping is crazy
 
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