Maybe it wouldn't be so many fukkboys if dudes could actually be themselves.

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

You got dudes in that other thread talking about how the onus is on men to "improve" themselves and have "game" That's fine and all, and realistically that's how it works. BUT is that how it SHOULD work. Why not be yourself and have women like you or not(choice is theirs ultimately) Instead of putting on a show just because women expect you to behave/act/be a certain kind of way. For ya'll roast me this isn't even a nerd or a lame thing, plenty dudes will front for a chick, just because they know they need to. And plenty of dudes will tell other dudes if you wanna be liked do XYZ. In other words Men shouldn't be themselves when pursuing women. And since most of us are black on this site(I Guess) I'm specifically talking about Black women. Black women raise the rates of fukkboys by not entertaining the real. so when she's like "You wasn't like this when I met you, the response is indubitably "You wouldn't have liked me if I was"

 

[Big Daddy]

 

[Chill]

You can still be yourself, just have your shyt together

And when I mean be yourself, I mean don't be a fukking weirdo creep, but you can generally get away with a lot

 

[El Coupeacabra]

Be you my nikka.

Just be the BEST version of you possible to ensure success...ain't no different than any other aspect of life.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Nah I'm holding it in the road breh. I got a agenda with this.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Be you my nikka.

Just be the BEST version of you possible to ensure success...ain't no different than any other aspect of life.

I'm fine. I'm just putting this in the air.

 

[Canon]

i just wanna know why people think a breh has a problem if he can pull other races but not black women?

 

[2stainz]

I see what your saying, good points....just make sure people dont confuse what you're saying with being anti self-improvement

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

i just wanna know why people think a breh has a problem if he can pull other races but not black women?

The thinking is if you are of a certain race you should be able to pull a certain race. Like as a black dude. I know what to talk about, expect from a black woman(in general)

 

[El Coupeacabra]

I'm fine. I'm just putting this in the air.

Well think about it like this...would IG heaux be as big as they are if we weren't thirsty for fat asses and exotic faces?

These heaux deserve these fukkboys and these fukkboys deserve these heaux

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I see what your saying, good points....just make sure people dont confuse what you're saying with being anti self-improvement

You should always work to improve yourself. but being a lame or a jerk isn't a lifestyle choice, it's just what you are. my point is shouldn't you be loved for being who you are? If I go to the club tonight act suave as fukk. play the game raw and a chick falls for it. is it really my fault. because if I was just my regular self and talked about shyt that interest me or whatever and didn't get no play. would I be a fool to do so?

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Well think about it like this...would IG heaux be as big as they are if we weren't thirsty for fat asses and exotic faces?

These heaux deserve these fukkboys and these fukkboys deserve these heaux

LOL, that's out of my realm. I don't know shyt about instagram heauxs. or their choices.

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

Muthafukkas always crying about some bullshyt.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Muthafukkas always crying about some bullshyt.

Explain how I'm crying?

 

[knickscrusaderm]

My problem is I'm not a regular person.

I can't be giving out verses.