Maybe it wouldn't be so many fukkboys if dudes could actually be themselves.

[The Oracle]

pretty sure ur looking at this wrong

 

[FSP]

don't yall get tired of talkin abt the same false bullshyt? Yes, it's always a bw fault. her fault for yall dating out and "raising rates of fukkboys" w/e that means

I actually don't hate bw at all, shyt. I actually have a black baby momma. But I love myself to much to know that it ain't me who's wrong.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I wish I knew

One thing that happened to me once I realized how mechanical some of this "game" shyt is, once I knew what she wanted and only had to "fake" like I was that dude, before she bought into it completely, is -- that shyt turns me completely the fukk off. Probably the only thing that can make my dikk soft in the company of a fine woman. I hate stereotype culture with a passion. But these hoes LOVE it. That's when I knew I wasn't built for this player shyt, unless I went completely off the rails by being so unique of a person that it's magnetic to a woman off the rip. That's the only way I'm getting what I want in the dating world. Drake kinda does that in the hip hop game. That's why I kinda admire his moves, I'm no stan tho.

Drake has money...he wouldnt be getting all these hoes before it

Dude tries too hard...thats a lame character trait

 

[From the Soil]

There is certainly some truth to this. But if you mention this very real phenomenon, you are accused of being a "lame", "get not p*ssy", "kent", etc.

There is no real and positive masculinity among black folks. That is the issue. The consequence of that is the emergence of this hypermasculine ideal, and conformity to that ideal becomes a prerequisite for considered as a potential mate by a significant number of black women. The further one deviates from that hypermasculine ideal in terms of interests, mannerisms, attitude, personality, and so on, the quicker one is written off by the same number of women. Yes yes, people will go on and on about how black people are not a monolith and so on, which is absolutely true, but women's attraction triggers are far, far more monolithic than many of us would

 

[FSP]

I agree with u but it is what it is. U think I tell bytches I like naruto and post on the coli? Or that I like border patrol porn? Nah I don't

Those border patrol joints tho

I might actually go out and open to chicks one day and keep it 1 billion percent. Just to see where it goes

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

There is certainly some truth to this. But if you mention this very real phenomenon, you are accused of being a "lame", "get not p*ssy", "kent", etc.

There is no real and positive masculinity among black folks. That is the issue. The consequence of that is the emergence of this hypermasculine ideal, and conformity to that ideal becomes a prerequisite for considered as a potential mate by a significant number of black women. The further one deviates from that hypermasculine ideal in terms of interests, mannerisms, attitude, personality, and so on, the quicker one is written off by the same number of women. Yes yes, people will go on and on about how black people are not a monolith and so on, which is absolutely true, but women's attraction triggers are far, far more monolithic than many of us would

I dapped this but I'm on my Nore too drunk to understand it. lol. but nah you make god points.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

i just wanna know why people think a breh has a problem if he can pull other races but not black women?

nikka you a lame its ok

 

[SheWantTheD]

A person has to be in a certain mind state and have a certain mentality to throw all that game bullshyt out the window.

Y'all both genuinely like each other and everything just happens naturally.

No games, ulterior motives etc.

If someone you know lurks certain media platforms like LSA and even this section of this site, might wanna stay away. As both perpetuate playing games, so you don't get "played".. but it's all just a revolving door of fukkery and lack of substance.

This is exactly why I throw women who play games from the get go into the bushes. Nobody got time for bullshyt games, I'm a grown ass man. The only games I play are video games.

 

[Krazy K]

you can be yourself. You should always be yourself. If people don't like you for being yourself

the problem is you nikkas don't like what being yourself gets you and want what other nikkas get

forgetting that those dudes are getting it cause their being themselves

 

[The Oracle]

You got dudes in that other thread talking about how the onus is on men to "improve" themselves and have "game" That's fine and all, and realistically that's how it works. BUT is that how it SHOULD work. Why not be yourself and have women like you or not(choice is theirs ultimately) Instead of putting on a show just because women expect you to behave/act/be a certain kind of way. For ya'll roast me this isn't even a nerd or a lame thing, plenty dudes will front for a chick, just because they know they need to. And plenty of dudes will tell other dudes if you wanna be liked do XYZ. In other words Men shouldn't be themselves when pursuing women. And since most of us are black on this site(I Guess) I'm specifically talking about Black women. Black women raise the rates of fukkboys by not entertaining the real. so when she's like "You wasn't like this when I met you, the response is indubitably "You wouldn't have liked me if I was"

you SHOULD be yourself. improvement doesn't mean to pretend to be someone else, it means improve your understanding of the way women view men so that you can stop doing shyt that is turning women off

attraction between men and women is natural. it shouldn't need to be forced.

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

Explain how I'm crying?

You mad because folks telling you to be confident and learn how to approach a female and you dont want too, but then complain about females not giving you any play. You a crybaby

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

you can be yourself. You should always be yourself. If people don't like you for being yourself

the problem is you nikkas don't like what being yourself gets you and want what other nikkas get

forgetting that those dudes are getting it cause their being themselves

I'm actually cool with that. I'm on my Joe Budden. I recently had a date with this cute ass chick. and she went on and on about Erykah Badu being some sort of goddess, and I was holding it in the road till she said that, and then I couldn't take it anymore. I went in, she bounced and I ordered a Taco Salad and went to Amazon to order some powdered Vitamin C. A fukkboy would have entertained her bullshyt. I told her that a chick with 3 baby daddy's ain't the wave no matter how rich she is.

 

[FSP]

There is certainly some truth to this. But if you mention this very real phenomenon, you are accused of being a "lame", "get not p*ssy", "kent", etc.

There is no real and positive masculinity among black folks. That is the issue. The consequence of that is the emergence of this hypermasculine ideal, and conformity to that ideal becomes a prerequisite for considered as a potential mate by a significant number of black women. The further one deviates from that hypermasculine ideal in terms of interests, mannerisms, attitude, personality, and so on, the quicker one is written off by the same number of women. Yes yes, people will go on and on about how black people are not a monolith and so on, which is absolutely true, but women's attraction triggers are far, far more monolithic than many of us would

Yep, and dry dikkk breeds conformity. That's why I blame black women, not completely, but maybe 50%, for the violent culture, and more importantly, the glorification of it, that permeates through the lower class black society. They are attracted to it, especially when they are in their prime looks wise, when they have the most social power. If black women would stop chasing the bad boy stereotype, and started giving p*ssy to Jaleel from science class, murders in Chicago would drop to 0 overnight, suddenly you would see hood nikkas with straight A's signing up for college on full scholarship and shyt.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

You mad because folks telling you to be confident and learn how to approach a female and you dont want too, but then complain about females not giving you any play. You a crybaby

I get play breh. I was speaking in general terms. im good. 5'11 light skin, not the most photogenic but im good without a camera

 

[FSP]

A person has to be in a certain mind state and have a certain mentality to throw all that game bullshyt out the window.

Y'all both genuinely like each other and everything just happens naturally.

No games, ulterior motives etc.

If someone you know lurks certain media platforms like LSA and even this section of this site, might wanna stay away. As both perpetuate playing games, so you don't get "played".. but it's all just a revolving door of fukkery and lack of substance.

This is exactly why I throw women who play games from the get go into the bushes. Nobody got time for bullshyt games, I'm a grown ass man. The only games I play are video games.

This needs to be on a shirt