Its another piece basically wanting individuals to shame blame themselves and the quote about Umar to pander to the woman demographic and not really touching on the woman's responsibility . Folk's can do everything right and still lose in the in because alot of people whom they are dating are taught by nature to be selfish, shallow, and show gratitude. Its twice as bad in the Black Community and double on Black men whom don't have the options or the charisma of nikkas with confidence and cake.
It touches the surface but doesn't dig within and doesn't tackle on the real issue which is that a vast majority of the people out here in today's generation are either mentally warped. They already cashed out early with a bunch of kids from different people, put their only motivation on a green piece of paper instead of other different values of life, poor social skills, socially awkward, and taught to not appreciate masculinity.