Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign

[Wild self]

Marriage is an institution that protected women in the past, at a time when women couldn't participate in the workforce at least to the same degree as men, couldn't be allowed to attend higher education, study a trade etc. Marriage and things like alimony protected women in those days so that they'd have means to look out for themselves.

Those days are now gone. Women can participate in the workplace, they can and often DO out earn the average man since now that the economy has shifted to a service based one, women have become highly desired as executive assistants, flight attendants, teachers, counsellors, nurses, doctors, accountants and even in trades they are aggressively trying to recruit women. The economy is now designed to favor women.

The problem is, now many women are turned off by men who aren't earning significant amounts of money because the culture is still stuck in that same mode it has been for several years 'men earn the most money in the household. Men shouldn't be nurses, teachers, or social workers. Men shouldn't earn less money or work less hours than women' this totally ruins the dating prospects for several men and we're not even counting the unrealistic standards men are now being held to in terms of appearance just to even get their foot in the door.

Women are expecting men to look like the characters on the shows designed for them like Greys anatomy or the reality shows they watch like 'the circle' 'are you the one' and 'love island'. It's now gotten to the point where you have men looking at how much money they're expected to earn, and how hard they need to work to look 'attractive' so they say 'nah fukkit' and go back to playing 2k and smoking blunts

Blame that on the media. I mean, all of it.

 

[Astroslik]

Absolutely ignorant as fukk but yet so profound. And you are right, the suckas aint even going no more. We more men not do the step daddy shyt.

A certain ilk of men are fed up with the bs. I’m talking nikkas who actually get bytches. Dudes are starting to see that this shyt is bs 98% of the time

 

[Apollo Creed]

You are one of the most full of shyt users on this site.

You talk about what you did as thought your life should be used as a measurement for what others should endure and accomplish.

You look at a black man receiving support from his mother, and you stick your greasy nose in the middle of it to try and put a stop to his mum having his back.

In following posts you go on to admit the support you received from the government and the initiatives that don't exist today.

Your post was dumb. On the outside, you don't know what people are going through but you're an arrogant, judgemental piece of shyt who doesn't skip a beat when it comes to throwing shade on black men.

the funy thing with these women is when it comes to their short comings its “the system”, when it comes to mens short comings “we aint ish”

 

[Umoja]

the funy thing with these women is when it comes to their short comings its “the system”, when it comes to mens short comings “we aint ish”

Her type is the worst.

You'll note that when she first expressed her apprehension about letting children stay at home after the age of 18, she didn't mention how good she had it, that she relied on government programs, was average and regarded as lazy.

 

[Astroslik]

You are one of the most full of shyt users on this site.

You talk about what you did as thought your life should be used as a measurement for what others should endure and accomplish.

You look at a black man receiving support from his mother, and you stick your greasy nose in the middle of it to try and put a stop to his mum having his back.

In following posts you go on to admit the support you received from the government and the initiatives that don't exist today.

Your post was dumb. On the outside, you don't know what people are going through but you're an arrogant, judgemental piece of shyt who doesn't skip a beat when it comes to throwing shade on black men.

@Kiyoshi-Dono

 

[HARLEM AL]

A certain ilk of men are fed up with the bs. I’m talking nikkas who actually get bytches. Dudes are starting to see that this shyt is bs 98% of the time

Yeah man. I dont think they could put the genie back in the bottle.

 

[semicko82]

the funy thing with these women is when it comes to their short comings its “the system”, when it comes to mens short comings “we aint ish”

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah man. I dont think they could put the genie back in the bottle.

Yeah regulating all complaints to incels is a cop out lol. The dudes who get chicks aint tryna marry these birds, and once the FWB situations end when the wall comes its gonna be ugly lmfao

 

[---]

I believe it...

I think a lot of men struggle to get women because a lot of women gravitate to a small group of men.

This is ridiculously accurate. A small group of men with money and confidence are basically terraforming everything they touch.

 

[semicko82]

This is ridiculously accurate. A small group of men with looks and confidence are basically terraforming everything they touch.

Fixed

 

[---]

I'm on my purpose right now to make money i aint letting no female bum bytch that's gonna use me or relationship slow me down. alot of these broads expect you to simp after them I've learned my lesson...

You simply won't get to the next stage of the game of life if this remains your outlook in life. A good women is worth her weight in gold! Should always have an eye for them. My wife propelled to me new heights.

And to be honest some doors are just not open to single men in business, period!

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

But the people I'm speaking on don't do any of this and are still "behind".

That is the issue.

A lot of debt is relative.

I'm $25k in debt and it hurts just as much as someone with $100k in debt.

Both of us are in the hole, struggling to pay it while our landlord shrugs and raise the rent $100-$500 higher.

EDIT: Wanted to add, no one helped me with trying to figure out college and I made sure to make a small enough mistake that I could at least kind of pay for. But I digress.

Understand, folks aren't dumb.

They look outside and realize:

They may never own a house.

They will never see social security (which takes plenty of money out of your check).

They see their friends flying high, then crashing and burning from one medical emergency.

They watched their parents lose everything from the 08 financial crisis.

They watched folks come OUT OF retirement because their pensions/retirement wasn't enough.

Corporations crush their family members with terrible working conditions.

I could go on. Why would folks want to willing go out and slave away?

For what purpose? What is the endgame? Ask these kids these questions, you'll get the same answers I did.

They don't see the point when looking out at the world today.

I don't blame them either.

She also mentioned ppl are too materialistic, thinking they need 100k

I don't see that

A lot of people would be happy making 60k, particularly Black people

 

[HARLEM AL]

Yeah regulating all complaints to incels is a cop out lol. The dudes who get chicks aint tryna marry these birds, and once the FWB situations end when the wall comes its gonna be ugly lmfao

Its happening now. Thats why they are complaining. I'm seeing this shyt first hand at work.

 

[Apollo Creed]

You simply won't get to the next stage of the game of life if this remains your outlook in life. A good women is worth her weight in gold! Should always have an eye for them. My wife propelled to me new heights.

And to be honest some doors are just not open to single men in business, period!

how long have you been married

 

[HARLEM AL]

You simply won't get to the next stage of the game of life if this remains your outlook in life. A good women is worth her weight in gold! Should always have an eye for them. My wife propelled to me new heights.

And to be honest some doors are just not open to single men in business, period!

I wish you nikkas would stop this. Its disingenuous as fukk.