Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign

[LunaticVillage415]

I think that nobody wants to settle anymore. Men want some top off the line exotical light skin black, Puerto Rican, Filipina mix real life Jessica Rabbit with some crazy 40P cup-24-55 measurements who stay age 23 forever. If this wasn’t true, why do you think women get so much plastic surgery these days to look like robotic Japanese fukkdolls?

And women want Lil Baby in real life who is 6’5”, only wear Dior, Balenciaga, Gucci and Louis, has every sneaker and hyped up clothing item and never wears the same thing twice, drive a different foreign everyday of the week and has a fleet of fully restored old school cars too, has a spotless mansion in some exclusive community in ATL or somewhere like that, knows hella celebrities personally, can go on vacation anywhere in the world at the drop of a hat, has money but never seems to work much, is super hood but somehow a successful business man etc. etc.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I think that nobody wants to settle anymore. Men want some top off the line exotical light skin black, Puerto Rican, Filipina mix real life Jessica Rabbit with some crazy 40P cup-24-55 measurements who stay age 23 forever. If this wasn’t true, why do you think women get so much plastic surgery these days to look like robotic Japanese fukkdolls?

And women want Lil Baby in real life who is 6’5”, only wear Dior, Balenciaga, Gucci and Louis, has every sneaker and hyped up clothing item and never wears the same thing twice, drive a different foreign everyday of the week and has a fleet of fully restored old school cars too, has a spotless mansion in some exclusive community in ATL or somewhere like that, knows hella celebrities personally, can go on vacation anywhere in the world at the drop of a hat, has money but never seems to work much, is super hood but somehow a successful business man etc. etc.

nah, trevante Rhodes is a better example.

 

[Apollo Creed]

You using the NBA as an analogy is kind of juvenile… The game is still to put the basket through the hole, and a lot of players from years past can still be successful in the modern NBA… the thing is, most of y’all are raised by the internet and learn about a females “nature” via a screen as opposed to real life……. that’s why y’all say the wild shyt y’all say…. and are easy finanancial licks for a lot of YouTubers….

how is it juvenile when a player frkm 1940 would get ran off the court in the current NBA, even though the objective is the same?

you are saying a bunch of nothing.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Why Men Want to Get Remarried More than Women Do

The Demographics of Remarriage

Tis true. Men are more likely to remarry. It’s a running joke among a lot of the women I know who are seeking marriage—“go find a man who’s been married before. They move differently and are more commit minded and willing to marry”. That’s how one of my girls got recently engaged. She got with a divorced man smh.

Stuff like this ignores nuances. Lotta dudes getting married are simps and cant be alone, and the ones who arent tend to be wealthy and the marriage is just a power play, nothing to do with love, yet all get grouped together.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I mean I can be horrible with my own money though. I’m actually not, my credit is extremely good and I have a ton in savings and make more than enough to live I want, on my own terms. My boyfriend makes about 3x the amount I do but he isn’t bougie like me, and doesn’t necessarily like the things I do with my money (like ordering door dash as frequently as I want lol). The thing is he can’t say much because it’s my money and I can do what I want. But the moment we combine that shyt, I already know.

chances are are you and the women you know are used to males and not men hence the result of being a tribe of divorced women lol. Im mot even trying to diss just going off of what has been presented

 

[Wiseborn]

Y'all are weird when you say this, I've simply changed my priorities and moved away from chasing/convincing/looking for women. I make more money than most and I haven't even finished school yet, I drive a luxury car, I'm in good shape, etc. but I know better than to waste my time in a low chance of success endeavor, so I switch my focus and use what I can access to fill voids of what I can't. It's not defeat, it's awareness and realism.

Since we're giving takes on how people's opinions come off a lot of older dudes in this thread are naive as fukk to how things are now, and other dudes are plain oblivious because their attractive/in the top 20% and have been winning so they can't understand how one could ever lose.

It's funny because Handsome gang does this too. Any one will tell you you're goofy if you need validation from women and even in the #metoo era it's better to be posin' to get chosen.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

how is it juvenile when a player frkm 1940 would get ran off the court in the current NBA, even though the objective is the same?

you are saying a bunch of nothing.

See how you went back damn near 100 years……. Not 20,30, or even 40 or 50….My point stands….hence why started off initially saying that the comparison was juvenile to begin with….. you can’t even have a genuine discourse about the subject… which kind of explains why you’re on here complaining about relationships with the opposite sex

 

[Claudex]

I don’t consider a boyfriend the same as a friends with benefit. There is a deeper level of commitment in a relationship, there’s love, more romance, exclusivity and a bit more integration into each other’s lives, versus an fwb. So no neither me or my boyfriend consider our relationship to be an eternal fwb status.

And Suitable option? For what? I’ve said I don’t value marriage and am indifferent to getting married because I’m fine with my life as is. What am i waiting to be considered a suitable option for? You’ll have to clarify what you mean.

as an FYI, I don’t have an issue with men choosing not to get married because they can’t find a woman that they deem marriageable based on their own criteria/standards. I imagine there are many women who feel the same. Hence this article. I think like minded men and women who value marriage are definitely out there—they will continue to get married, as they should.

those who don’t desire it, for whatever the reason, will not, and probably should not because they are probably more likely to walk away/not take it as seriously as those who do value marriage.

Plus this bytch ass planet is overpopulated anyway. Facts!

 

[Apollo Creed]

See how you went back damn near 100 years……. Not 20,30, or even 40 or 50….My point stands….hence why started off initially saying that the comparison was juvenile to begin with….. you can’t even have a genuine discourse about the subject… which kind of explains why you’re on here complaining about relationships with the opposite sex

no you have no point. If the game is the same
I can go back a million years and the point stands.

my last post to you because i feel im killing brain cells talking to a child with zero life experience.

 

[Wiseborn]

So in a nutshell, we are in a form of dog eat dog capitalism in the dating game

That was always the case. The difference is back then dudes died early from job related deaths, wars and slavery.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

no you have no point. If the game is the same
I can go back a million years and the point stands.

my last post to you because i feel im killing brain cells talking to a child with zero life experience.

I have a whole family lil nikka…. And out of 9 years and 1000s of posts on this site, you can’t find me complaining about the opposite sex… AT ALL….. Maybe you ain’t the nikka you think you are….. Who told you that you were relationship material to begin with? You nikkas rather complain and have pity parties as opposed to getting some straightening….

 

[CarmelBarbie]

chances are are you and the women you know are used to males and not men hence the result of being a tribe of divorced women lol. Im mot even trying to diss just going off of what has been presented

Or chances are there are some formerly married men who are just as I’ve described, just as there are formerly married men that are not. Not every man is the same Breh. Some men who’ve been divorced before, NEVER want to get married again. Some are on there third wife smh.

 

[Wiseborn]

I’m just too OCD about cleanliness. My boyfriend does an okay job keeping his house clean but it’s not up to my standards. Really no one except for one friend keeps their place up to my standards cleaning wise so I’m just too particular. It often means that I can’t relax unless my place looks a certain way, and if I’m living with someone who isn’t as clean as I am, I know I’ll have to clean up more (which is already what I have to do after my son)and I don’t want to.

I like to sleep in the bed by myself, I just get too hot at night with someone else in the bed with me. My boyfriend used to get mad because I didn’t want to do sleepovers, but I don’t get a good sleep unless I have the entire bed to myself lol. I do them now, and just accept that I won’t sleep well that night. But having to do that everyday?

I like spending my money the way I want and buying what I want without worry. Once you combine money with someone else, that shyt gets complicated.
I don’t want to answer to anyone else, lol. I don’t want to have always keep him in mind when I’m making decisions either.

Finally, I like having my alone time and freedom. Like my own room. My own space. It’s just nice.

So trust me you aren’t the only one, who feels that way. I’ve met a number of women, and even in my own family, of now divorced women that have said they don’t ever want to live with a man again lol.

Based on what you say you're basically a female MGTOW. Nothing wrong with that but when a Man says it people look at him funny.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

no you have no point. If the game is the same
I can go back a million years and the point stands.

my last post to you because i feel im killing brain cells talking to a child with zero life experience.

The consensus greatest player played over 20 years ago.

 

[Wiseborn]

Judgement over how I spend my money, questions asked about bank statements, purchases, about my spending habits etc. because I’m not going to lie I buy what I want when I want and sometimes that’s not exactly wise but it’s my money lol. Again it gets complicated when your suddenly having to be accountable for your budgeting, spending and saving habits, especially if it’s different from the other persons.

This is a big issue. when I lived with a chick we had wildly different interests. She'd invest in art, she'd buy pictures and not even have a frame for it.

I will say her aunt worked at NCCU and taught the dude who did the Good Times artwork and some of his shyt is worth some money.


She'd look at me funny when I paid 750 dollars on ammo. What we did was kept our money separate and I paid the majority of the household bills.