"Men beat themselves up for struggling financially. It's hard to date them...."

Luke Cage

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This is :duck:


She just don't fukk with broke nikkas. No man has ever told a woman he's upset at himself for being broke. She just trying to read his mind and injected her opinion into his thoughts. He's mad at me because he's feeling insecure about being broke :mjlol: or he might be mad cause of some other shyt you did.
 

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The only time I beat myself up is for some hardships that I feel were self inflicted.

I've been in situations were I didn't have much money and I still had a woman or at the very least a few women interested.

I use to tell my old lady at the time (when money was tight) we going to rent some redbox movies (this is before Netflix was popping like it is now) and we are going to throw some chicken breasts on the George Foreman grill from out of the freezer.

I'd go get a cheap bottle of vodka, gin, or rum, and that would be our date night sitting at the apartment watching redbox movies, eating grilled chicken breasts, and drinking liquor.

I had more fun doing that shyt than going out on expensive dates a lot of nights.
 

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Women are such fukking facetious creatures. Financial security is important in maintaining a long-lasting relationship. Especially when other variables such as age and children are thrown in the mix. Due to the desire for security, women's dating strategy is selecting men with stable finances. Second, a man who'se struggling financially is in that predicament due to an array of issues. Be it limited opportunity, skill, injuries etc. All of which compound to the volatile situation. Twitter Birds chirping about fragile masculinity but won't miss a beat to talk about broke boys when chastising men. If a man is or could be broke and content - maintain his social lifestyle, he'd never worry about finances.
 

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its hard out here. Im in my late 20's and about to join a strong union. I will most likely be a salary worker there when I hit 29 or 30 but it took a lot of struggle and most importantly meeting the right people. rent is going up and wages are stagnant this shyt is hard and as other posters said as a man you suppose to be a provider. It fukking with young men's minds going through this shyt.
Yep and when u finally get on top instead of trying to “build” with a woman (who didnt help u build shyt to begin with).....u go out and run thru hoes to make up for lost time.

Hence the increase in older bachelors and older unmarried career women...
 
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