Men: do you prefer aggressive women or more subdued?

[electric_fur]

I don't mean thirsty women or crazy chicks. I just mean women who let a dude know she likes him and takes control of the dating situation.

I used to be more aggressive when it came to dating and in fact I would go straight up to a guy and ask him out. I learned over time I had to let dudes be more in control of that shyt so I've turned into one of the type that waits for a guy to make a move. But every now and again I can't help my aggressive tendencies and go after a dude if I really want him.

 

[MikelArteta]

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[electric_fur]

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I dunno why this was posted.

 

[Chris.B]

Ask black women how their aggressive behavior has worked for them.

I learned over time I had to let dudes be more in control of that **** so I've turned into one of the type that waits for a guy to make a move

I see you found out the hard way. Only place men like you being aggressive is probably the bedroom...everywhere else lay back

 

[electric_fur]

Ask black women how their aggressive behavior has worked for them.


I see you found out that hard way. Only place men like you being agrressive is probably the bedroom...everywhere else lay back

You really need to stop insulting black women in all your posts.

Also I asked out my first longterm boyfriend---we dated for a year.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

subdued, easily.

even though the types like the fat lawyers wife in 'curb your enthusiasm' could be cool now and again but calm subdued easily.

 

[Egomaniacal1]

As long as we not talking thirst, blow ya phone up type chicks...then i will say i do love an aggressive go-getter type woman.

I live down south and all these hoes in my area play that subdued, come get me role. The problem being 99% of these chicks ain't got shyt going for them to be demanding nikkas to chase after them like all that....a nikka ends up playing way to many games with a bunch of below average women and it get's super frustrating and downright annoying.

As long as you can take rejection like a man, ie without all the drama, attitude and histrionics, i ain't mad atcha.

 

[electric_fur]

subdued, easily.

even though the types like the fat lawyers wife in 'curb your enthusiasm' could be cool now and again but calm subdued easily.

I just mean aggressive in making the first move. I don't mean grumpy ass people.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

at the point i'm at now, i prefer women who are aggressive because i'm at the point where i don't have time to chase/don't see the benefit of chasing when i could be thinking about other things that enrich my life. women can be more trouble than they're worth if you chase them too often...

 

[Miggs]

Honestly i dont care...as an alpha male im going to be the aggressor and hunter regardless,chick will always be the antelope so its about how you look,personality and other sh1t....

 

[Black]

laid back little bytch.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Just be calm/laid back, girly (feminine), respectful, nurturing (with out treating me like a child ) and NOT LOUD PLEASE.... I cant stand loud ppl


As for the first move? I'd rather her give me signs and then I'll approach her and see whats up

Sexually, I like someone submissive. Im pretty vocal, aggressive (in a good way), and dominate. So i need someone who is happy with being at my mercy sexually



I know, I sound like a sick sexual deviant but im really a nice guy

 

[NSSVO]

Both.

 

[GoPro]

Aggressive, but if you get the incling I'm not feeling you, fall back. Like if you have to keep asking me out, something should add up. Got this one chick on my job who must swear up and down that she's going to break me. Bout to tell her I'm on my

 

[Dwolf]

I prefer a friendly woman over a aggressive one. Because I tend to be a passive person and that aggressiveness comes off as hostile to me