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Facts.
Men Fall in Love w/ Beauty & a Challenge...
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Facts.
I am sure it does. People love a challenge. Best strategy by far.
YAAAAAAASSSSSSSS!
So much truth! You killing me! Sooooo true.
As much as dudes claim to want a chick who is attentive to their needs and all about them, their actions DIRECTLY contradict what they say.
Gurrrl! I'm talking to a guy I recently met as well. Amazing dude. My natural inclinations run towards happiness b/c I'm southern and so I love people. My family is touchy feely and we are demonstrative in our affections. So we are like that with friends and family, loved ones. Little back scratches, hugs, squeeze each other's hands. So of course I used to take that energy into my interactions with guys too when I was younger. But what I noticed was that dudes interpret that as "having you" and no longer needing to work for or earn ur affections.
Same with this dude. I was so starstruck initially b/c of the how fukking brilliant he was and everything he was doing for me that I was hanging on to that mofo's every word. He's the type to move lightning fast. Catch you, give u a directive, in and then out.
That shyt didn't work for me b/c I he can be inadvertently rude and people are okay with it b/c he so damn smart. So I stopped being available and privileging his attention. I'm cool with a lot of other people in our department, so I go out with them and so my name is always poppin up in passing with his people as well. When I saw him I was always honey sweet but zip in and zip out.
Girl this dude emailed my ass to go out, got me serving on the same committees and boards as him--has literally shaped my entire schedule around his own...asked why he isn't my facebook friend when I was friends with others...shyt is crazy and wonderful.All b/c he needed to learn that my admiration of him doesnt negate my own autonomy. Sometimes they need to understand that you have a life outside of their interest in you. That's where respect is built.
But if U follow what a lot of dudes SAY they want, you can end up looking dumb as hell getting played and baking cookies for a nikka who sharing them with a chick that don't do shyt but exist. Always look at their actions.
Right. Just that little bit of distance makes a big difference. It's the best way to be "challenging" without being mean. Following these dudes like a puppy and trying to guard them like a hound is the best way to have yourself looking like a fool out here and in the bushes. Men are suppose to chase women not the other way around. Like you said, these men will have you out here looking like a simp if you follow their advice.
Oh, okay.
Personally I don’t believe anyone is out of anyone’s league. Either you like somebody and make your move or just don’t attempt at all.
Michelle Obama is out of Ray Ray who hangs out at the corner store league. That's just my opinion. lol
lol I don't think that is what he meant but I am not surprised you interpreted it as such...or maybe he did.
IDK, on a scale of 1-10 how difficult is it to convert you into a doormat?
Doormat? Impossible
Killigraphy
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If thats the context you want to put it, then sure. But ultimately its the same finish line. You can look at relationship statistics or the general consensus with most men. I work with what I'm given. You only stated that the comment was made and if the dude was "on point or nah". So, to put it simply. No. He wasn't on any point. I already dissected the whole simps saying whatever to get laid or sound fake-woke angle. But I also tackled the other point of entry. Long term relationships = some challenge is needed. One night stand = no one wants a challenge.
If you say so. We can agree to disagree.
y'all still let them goofys hit it tho
I meant on this forum and I can assure you I have never had relations with anyone here.
Killigraphy
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Some shyt a gay dude would say or the whole scenario is completely made up which is probably more likely.at saying “I fall in love with beauty and a woman who’s a challenge”.
I've heard simps say worse at the local watering hole. Beta's will say anything to sound deep and even more so when liquor is involved.
Biggest cringe moment; "I don't curse in front of my girlfriend"....This was from a jock who thought showing his cock to everyone at any point of the day was heeeeeelarious. The punchline? He of course was pretending because he wanted to impress his cac girlfriend....I seriously couldn't make something that simpish, up.
Yeah but finding you is chance. A lot of men can make a clot jump. A movie or picture can make a clit jump. That's not a special skill.
You made a ton of assumptions that took away from your argument.
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KANG LIFE
Thread seems immature and a reason I’m glad I’m not in the dating game anymore.
I’m an up front person and ain’t got time to be playing games or a “challenge”.
The reason me and my wife clicked is because we were CONSISTENT with each other when we were dating.
We constantly communicated and kept each other in touch with when we would be available and never flaked on each other.
That’s an admirable quality in a woman because I feel I have that quality myself.
When I was dating. If I was really feeling a girl, she had my attention until she did something to lose it. Her playing games trying to be a “challenge” would be the easiest way for me to throw her in the bushes
I’m an up front person and ain’t got time to be playing games or a “challenge”.
The reason me and my wife clicked is because we were CONSISTENT with each other when we were dating.
We constantly communicated and kept each other in touch with when we would be available and never flaked on each other.
That’s an admirable quality in a woman because I feel I have that quality myself.
When I was dating. If I was really feeling a girl, she had my attention until she did something to lose it. Her playing games trying to be a “challenge” would be the easiest way for me to throw her in the bushes
Killigraphy
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That's all we can do (assume) since you haven't specified what he meant by the comment. Though considering he wasn't trying to smash...its the other proposed theory; sounding fake-work/deep.
I'm interpreting man code for you.