Maybe it's just the men you like to entertain, luh
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With that said, I'm not paying no woman's bills unless we're official; I'm talking certified official; there's a difference.
If we're in the beginning stages and just getting to know each other, in terms of learning each other's personal interests, favorite pastimes, hobbies, etc, there shouldn't be any requirement in which I have to pay any of your bills just to have a chance to talk with you; if so, that's kinda shallow.
Like, lady, you may look good, ass phat, and I wanna touch it, but you ain't all that for me to be tricking myself like a fool. The thing about a lot of women these days is that they either don't know how to communicate with a man or, let alone have the patience or desire to get to know him; they just want a guy to “go all out” and spend/splurge on 'em before he even knows what kinda person she is, as a woman.
I've learned a lot of women out here don't really want a man, as in an official boyfriend, etc; they want a trick, a guy who plays the role, y'know social media posts, public appearances of being “their man,” but in reality, he's not even that, just somebody who finances her wants, needs, etc, and in return, she'll pay him back with the occasional sex to keep him under her grasp until she decides to move on for whatever reason to the next guy who can afford (trick) her even more than the last.
