Men: In order to get laid...

Larry Lambo

Superstar
Joined
Sep 5, 2015
Messages
8,814
Reputation
1,700
Daps
30,668
If you lie you're gonna get chicks that want relationships.

If you keep it real you're gonna get chicks who on that ho shyt with you.

Depends on what you're lying about. Many of us lied to "hoes" about our previous experience to lose our virginity, because most women didn't want to f**k a virgin. Only way you could be honest about that s**t is if you wanted to lose it to a fat chick.

When I was in my more promiscuous phase I lied mainly about my social life (i.e. having friends), to the faster women I deal with. My thing was just not to come off as "lame", so a few lies were dropped here and there as to not kill the vibe. When it's all said and done, these are jumpoffs. I don't see the need to be 100% honest if they ask a question or guide the conversation a certain way where you have to lie to not weaken the attraction.
 
Joined
Sep 5, 2015
Messages
674
Reputation
-450
Daps
1,789
Yep, be honest. Basically have an "idgaf" attitude meaning that you're not afraid to say no. You're not afraid to speak your mind and disagree with her also. That's what he meant by 100% real.

Just be yourself.:yeshrug:

I know that sounds cliche, but so many guys are afraid to simply be themselves around new women. They hide shyt and try to put on this fake "perfect guy" persona. That's a no no. That's why women flock to the bad boys. Bad boys don't give a fukk about revealing their faults. Their shortcomings.

Something I've learned personally over time is that these females themselves aren't "perfect" so why put on the facade that YOU are? They are insecure. They are broke and struggling. They've made mistakes. I actually play off these things. When I'm first getting to know a woman, I like to talk about REAL shyt (the struggles of life). Forget all the cute shyt, tell me about your struggles and ill tell you mine. Just keep it real with em.

What this does is makes them comfortable with you from a mental standpoint. You become somebody that they can relax and let their guard down around.

Now keep in mind I've mainly dealt with older women so idk how these younger women react:whoa:

But older women, yea they love a dude who keeps it 100 because they've already heard so much BS in their life

That's real shyt:ehh:

In general I'd agree. Why would you want to get with a chick if you have to BS her? Mark Manson's "Models" book goes over this well enough. He basically said to just do you, express yourself, and let the cards fall where they may. :manny:

I find lying very difficult

no :duck:

I may lie about personal things like how often I jack off, but pretending to be someone I'm not is difficult or calling a girl pretty when she's average is very hard for me.

I don't think I've ever called a chick I was trying to smash "pretty" or "beautiful"

at most... "fine" and that was once

I even find liking girls pictures on facebook hard:mjlol:

LOLz - nah breh just like SOME of their hottest pics but NEVER comment on any of them. It sends the message that you think she's bad when she's at her best, tho :jawalrus:

I think men should remove "well, women do it too" from their vocabularies.

...Why?:jbhmm:

If you lie you're gonna get chicks that want relationships.

If you keep it real you're gonna get chicks who on that ho shyt with you.

There's no winning, breh:mjcry:

I vote for lie. Tell a fee whatever she want to hear for me to fukk and let fate decide the rest

An associate of mines said this a while back: "All I do is walk to her, compliment her on her beauty, and then BAM - a nikka just start tellin her everything she wanna hear right then and there:jawalrus:"

I was just like :dame: because this dude really had a bunch of bytches... It's like a dude wit a bunch of money tellin you how he gets his money. Like..."well then...:dame:"

These "bad boys" are the biggest liars. I know several grimey dudes (with 100+ bodies) that don't give a f**k and will say whatever it takes to get in a girl's panties.

And you're crazy if you think "bad boys" reveal faults and shortcomings. These are dudes with massive egos that act like they know everything and have never made a mistake in life. Only faults they admit to is shi**ing on women, which is not negative in many women's minds. I've never met a thug nikka that was humble and upfront about his weaknesses. That's not how they move.

You do have to be "perfect" in certain areas, from a confidence and social perspective.

Not having a solid social life - unacceptable
Low self esteem - unacceptable
Failure in school/work (and not being a street dude) - unacceptable
Lack of experience with women - unacceptable

The "flaws" that women look past are like this

Being a "player" - acceptable
Previously cheating on gf's but trying to do "better" - acceptable
Being a criminal/having a record - acceptable to some, unacceptable to others, but will attract the women that these men want
Not being relationship minded - same as above

Solid post. Idk how to rep, but... yea this is good.

I read r/theredpill frequently and they'll tell you RARELY to reveal any weakness to a woman. And IF you must, it should be like a small tear shedding over your dog getting hit by a car or some shyt like that. And even then yo ass better bounce back the NEXT DAY or else she's gonna dry up faster than the Sahara desert. And honestly, I agree with it.

Women simply cannot afford to be with a weak ass dude if they can help it. Nature didn't build them for it, IMO.
 

Black Nate Grey

The God Emperor of Mankind
Joined
Jan 24, 2014
Messages
7,343
Reputation
3,176
Daps
29,961
Why should you not lie?
Lying gets you more p*ssy.
If you're objective is to get more p*ssy.
And Liars are rewarded with p*ssy.
Then I mean logically lying is the right Step.

Unless it's serious shyt like STD's, children, psycho ex's, etc.

Everyone lies, especially women breh.
 

NotaPAWG

Banned
Joined
Jun 20, 2013
Messages
22,774
Reputation
6,480
Daps
79,979
0000000000000000000000000001212700000000000000000000000000012127My boyfriend told me off the bat he got issues and not much going for him and I still pursued him. Not gonna not date a guy just cause he doesn't have his shyt together. Truth is a lot of people I know included mines dated eachother when they were at their low or didn't have much going for them, help to uplift and build with one another

If you have to lie to a women about who you are and what you going going to get her interested you, you shouldn't be fukking with said women anyways
 

Ohene

Free Sheist
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
76,776
Reputation
6,979
Daps
134,180
Reppin
Toronto
to be fukking a different girl every week maybe. but on average it isnt necessary. girls want dikk.
 

Larry Lambo

Superstar
Joined
Sep 5, 2015
Messages
8,814
Reputation
1,700
Daps
30,668
My boyfriend told me off the bat he got issues and not much going for him and I still pursued him. Not gonna not date a guy just cause he doesn't have his shyt together. Truth is a lot of people I know included mines dated eachother when they were at their low or didn't have much going for them, help to uplift and build with one another

If you have to lie to a women about who you are and what you going going to get her interested you, you shouldn't be fukking with said women anyways

What were these "issues"? Some issues don't come of as bad to women as other issues.

It would be nice if your second statement was true, but it doesn't work like that. A man has to portray himself a certain way to be attractive to any woman. You don't go into a job interview saying "well if they can't accept my flaws then it's not the company for me". No, you put your best foot forward and hype yourself up as if you're the greatest thing since sliced bread.
 
Top