It's not a complaint. It's an honest question, if the desire for some strange is still there, are you living how you want to or how your wife/girl wants you to?
Well not all desires are created equal. Sometimes I desire to eat as much shytty food as I want but I also desire being healthy and happy with my body more. So I ignore one desire in favor of the one that's more important to me.
Sometimes I'll see a woman and think "damn she looks good." But my desire to be in a healthy and stable relationship with a woman I love and who I know loves and supports me is more important than my desire to smash a random woman who may or may not be crazy af/have diseases, etc. So I ignore one desire in favor of the one that's more important to me.
Me personally, I've always wanted to raise a family under a stable household, so I'm living the life I want to live. And at this stage of my life, that's more important to me than having sex with any woman I find attractive.
For some men, the desire to fukk multiple women is more important than wanting to have a stable relationship with one woman,
and that's okay! Like I said, I have more respect for men who know they want multiple women and pursue that while staying single than I do for men who want the stable relationship AND the random strange and end up fukking the game up for everyone. As I said, my only problem with single dudes is ya'll are always giving us relationship dudes shyt for not living the same lifestyle that ya'll live. That's it. We only act judgmental to ya'll cuz ya'll keep fukking with us so of course we're gonna clap back eventually lol. Otherwise, we'll mind our business and let ya'll live your lives. Only ones ya'll really have to worry about passing judgment on ya'll are your Christian mothers lol.
OP, you sound like you're just now going thru a phase you probably should have in your 20's early 30's.
you not going anywhere.
