Men of the Coli, help me out

[Jasonmask]

so I don't get it, basically when y'all were out, those two would make decisions (where to eat, what we doing) I mean y'all are hanging out, you ask what people want to do but it's not like your making orders and they have to follow. Women really think like that?!

What’s there not to get you just answered your own question. You’re coming off very green so if you plan to proceed do so with purpose.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

how are those two examples leaders though? It's another thing if someone gets their friends into VIP, tells them what we (me) are ordering and what women they can bring into VIP. What you said is someone just has connections, you can do whatever in the club, you just now have the option to be in VIP. Same with job referral, is your friend working for you? If not then it's just that a referral, if I refer someone and we are of the same level then I wouldn't call myself the leader.

if someone else is making decisions for you and friends go to them for livelihood then yes that's leadership qualities. it's pretty similar to what men claim they lead over gf so idk why you think it's a negative unless you just don't like that it's coming from a woman.
but yeah i don't see it as a negative. when one of the gworls wants to plan a night out i will pass them the leader hat and follow them gladly if it's poppin. maybe it's an ego thing for men

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I completely agree with you. A group of friends should basically be a democracy. There shouldn't be any leaders or followers. You just do what you want. There's an organiser, sure, the person who put the meet together. That person decides where and when you meet. There might be a host as well if you're at somebody's house, and that person decides what activities you're doing. But that's about it. That isn't leadership

If you've got anyone in your friends group who wants to play the boss man, he should be kicked out and excluded. If you want to be the boss, go to work. Work is the place where there are leaders and followers. Amongst friends, everyone is equal

I’m saying

Wtf is a leader to group of grown successful men.

Nobody did what I did/do, I never did what they did. Mutual respect Pull that leader shyt and we’ll all hit you with the